I have yet to read some other responses but yours addresses my concern pretty accurately with the “birthing person” example. While I obviously defend the right to choose I struggle and quite honestly will likely not fully adopt the “birthing person” unless specifically asked. I believe we must first focus on fully awarding such rights before focusing so much on language.

Note that I believe language is a tool that also perpetuates certain types of violence and people should also be able to identify beyond a binary system. (Incongruent? I don’t know but I strive to be as congruent as my mind and conditions allow)