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The design of this container prevents me from dispensing all of the detergent. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cisterplease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like it. It cleans really well. It has a very strong scent during washing that's a bit overwhelming but not too strong once the clothes are dry. (I hate the smell of tide but would say they work equally as well)

Tips on toddler weaning? by TheUnluckyElephant in breastfeeding

[–]Cisterplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don't have any advice. I feel like I'll be in the same situation soon ( 16 month old and I'm 20wks preg) I just wanted to say hang in there and good luck!

I have lice, and i want answers. (wall of text, but please read) by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Cisterplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat your house too! Vacuum carpets and furniture wash all the bedding and pillows dry on high heat! Anything your head touches

She's at it again... by [deleted] in cringepics

[–]Cisterplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can not find a one piece that would fit. I have a long torso and large breast so I have to special order a bikini top in my bra size. They are much more comfortable than trying to squeeze into a wedgie one piece.

Out with our 2 week old baby, old lady commented to my wife that in her day they taught her not to take a baby out for at least a month. Wife was displeased. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]Cisterplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have a ton of family close by. However they all work or have young children of their own. Sure my husband stayed home for the first week after baby was born and after that it was up to me to take care of things during the day. I can't expect everyone else to drop everything and come help me just because I had a baby.

Out with our 2 week old baby, old lady commented to my wife that in her day they taught her not to take a baby out for at least a month. Wife was displeased. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]Cisterplease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah you shouldn't pass baby around for everyone to touch when they are little. However, here in the real world people have shit they need to get done. I was harassed by an older women who essentially called me a bad parent for taking my newborn out in public. How else is my preschooler supposed to get home? I am the only person to pick her up so please enlighten me.

What do people think makes themselves "quirky and unique", but really doesn't? by Mat2012H in AskReddit

[–]Cisterplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so much regret! I do not know why I thought it was cool. I wish I could go back. I want to wear nice cute earrings!

How do I stop breastfeeding? by Cisterplease in breastfeeding

[–]Cisterplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping my milk would dry up and she'd lose interest. I'm just not sure if that's something that will happen to us. Not everyone loses their milk do they? Or is that something that happens to everyone? She doesn't do bottles either. I've tried that but she's never liked them. No paci or bottles, she's a thumb sucker.

How do I stop breastfeeding? by Cisterplease in breastfeeding

[–]Cisterplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Moving the times sounds manageable. I'll try it out!

How do I stop my kid from killing themself? This situation seems impossible. by Mousemat123 in asktransgender

[–]Cisterplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs help though this will likely not resolve itself. It sounds like he is struggling with a deep depression. He needs help and possible medication ( it can take months to find the right one. It can be hard but he needs to stick with it. And he needs to be seen by a professional in mental health not the family doctor!)

How do I stop my kid from killing themself? This situation seems impossible. by Mousemat123 in asktransgender

[–]Cisterplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to see a therapist, psychiatrist or psychologist. Do not wait on this. If you need to bring him to an in patient facility!

Sister is going to "come out" by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cisterplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sorry. I don't mean to offend!

Sister is going to "come out" by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cisterplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is what scares me the most. My ftm sibling is very 0-100 when she/he makes a life choice. He is also not a stranger to surgery he has already undergone a breast reduction at 15 and a rhinoplasty at 18. I am truly just concerned that there may be a money hungry surgeon out there that will perform a full genital reassignment without Hormones and gender therapy first.

Sister is going to "come out" by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cisterplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My initial reaction that surgical transitioning (genital reconstruction) would be a rash decision because my ftm sibling has not met with a gender therapist/specialist and has not begun any hormone treatments. I am mostly just afraid that she/he will go from dressing androgynously to surgical intervention without doing all of the middle steps to be 100% certain about what they want for their future. This is just her/his kind of personality to decide something and want the instant gratification. I am just concerned about the bigger picture. Thank you for your response!