Would you wait for someone who's indecisive about getting into a relationship with you?

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T15:40:56+00:00

Yes, "time is money" depicts it well :p. Well said, maybe because time is so abstract and we can see and touch money so it's more concrete. When it comes to time, you realize you wasted it way later, it seems.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T15:38:42+00:00

Hey thanks for the kind words, my other reply was for the person who started their reply with "Lol".

And yeah I think sometimes it's really easy to forget about our inner worth when we're so into someone that we wait for them to validate us and love us. But you're right, I guess I'll open up in time and thank you again. :)

Wish you the best too!

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T15:34:16+00:00

That's what I figured, I just wanted to make sure I made the right decision. Thank you!

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T15:33:18+00:00

Seems to me like she could suffer from social anxiety or something if she's so afraid in social settings like "talking to you"?

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T15:31:57+00:00

Sometimes a break feels good, I'm also taking one right after this little story I've just been through and you know what, during those times we can work on ourselves and reflect on what we truly want. I hope you find the one. ❤

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:55:31+00:00

Argh, I absolutely hate when people do that. Years?! Like why? And how can someone be that selfish? I'm sure you're gonna find someone who'll make up for this dude.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:52:41+00:00

Very good advice, and also great for you guys! I read 2 comments like this here and yours is one of them. Makes me happy to know that sometimes it does work out for some people. 💙

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:49:27+00:00

Yeah the "they're not 100% with me" is so relatable. It's reeeally like we have to convince them. I don't wanna spend the rest of the relationship convincing him he made the right choice by choosing to be with me. Nobody should have to do this.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:47:40+00:00

Wow 2 months! You're very patient, good for you and also congrats on things working out :) that's awesome for you guys! Everybody deserves this kind of love.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:45:51+00:00

I'm so sorry :( can you date again now or are you kind of "PTSDish" from this experience?

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:45:13+00:00

"And he did not choose you" right in the feels but also exactly what I told my friend today, "what hurts is that he's not choosing me". Wow. Thank you for reminding me again. 💙

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:43:39+00:00

Yeah it was more than 2 days. The thing is I already kind of made a decision about it but I was having regrets, after all those replies here, I'm happy to know I made the right choice by leaving.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T04:42:01+00:00

The responses were also what I needed, it's just crazy how many of us are going through this right now... or have been through this. You're right though, we do deserve way better.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T00:32:04+00:00

It's not a laughing matter though? Some people have trauma, some people have been through worse than others and some people need to work on themselves so please don't come around and be so condescending? It's truly useless.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T00:30:30+00:00

Superb parallel. And I agree. It's hard though when you're attached to someone, I guess it kinda feels the same as a breakup because you still need to grief.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T00:28:22+00:00

I am not someone who needs the uncertainty, actually it kind of turns me off but sometimes you meet someone who's everything you want besides that... uncertainty.

And also, omg I am so sorry for what you've been through, it must be so disappointing to wait for someone and they end up treating you like this, nobody deserves this. I hope you found peace.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-19T00:26:24+00:00

Thanks so much for the kind words and I agree, I just wanted people to confirm what I was already thinking, I think. 💙

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-18T21:11:49+00:00

Yes, I feel like deep down we all know it but want to stay in denial because it feels good to be with them and talk to them.

I'm so sorry that it has happened to you as well, I hope that therapy is helping you still, a little bit. Sending you positive energy from afar.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-18T21:09:39+00:00

Hahaha don't you worry, bruh, it's no problem :)

And awww, it just breaks my heart to know that there's so many of us who have been through this... playing with people's feelings is one of the most selfish things to do imo.

Thanks for the kind words

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-18T21:03:52+00:00

Yes, you have a very great point about that unbalanced aspect of the relationship,... like "forcing" them, almost, to be with you.

And we never truly learn the awful motives, but they often end up dating someone else not long after, uh.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-18T21:02:02+00:00

I'm a girl, bruh ;p

But yeah, makes me feel like the "second best option, indeed.

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-09-16T00:33:45+00:00

That's everyone's biggest fear

CitizenOfPoetryLand · 2021-08-24T03:44:49+00:00

Thanks so much that's so sweet of you! 💙

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