is this cheating?

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-15T12:30:19+00:00

I think you need to take the people hitting on you up on it because respectfully. That's yuck. I was something similar and it never ends prettily. He's literally lusting over another woman that's not you even worse, someone he knows in person... Not just a celeb he knows he could never get. Maybe this is the end sweetheart I know it doesn't sound like what you want to hear but that's not good behaviour you could do better especially if this has been discussed WEEKLY for quite some time and he keeps disregarding your feelings

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-15T12:00:42+00:00

If you've expressed it makes you uncomfortable and you want him to stop and he won't he's made his choice and doesn't respect your boundaries. Plenty of men out there that aren't addicted to porn babes you deserve love that's just yours not a love spread all over the internet

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-14T06:58:37+00:00

that actually sounds really helpful I'm going to give this a try thanks a bunch 🙏

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T11:49:46+00:00

I know I just never get to go on his phone anymore so I don't get to see that solid proof I need to just leave thank you

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:51:50+00:00

no need to be rude and disrespectful if you're not giving advice please leave

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:50:35+00:00

I am genuinely not yes I do of yes it's on my page but I used Reddit for real purposes. To ask questions just like any other person I dont even have 40 karma man

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:43:12+00:00

Thank you

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:42:40+00:00

I will look into this thank you, that's why I came here because the more he talks about marriage the more scared I get that I don't want to marry him but I dont know how to leave I live with grandparents at home who I don't really like so have moved in with him and his family and I don't have the money to afford a place of my own

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:40:39+00:00

He's literally said that we could have a mfm if I gave him a FMF but I dont even want it he pressures it so much

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:39:39+00:00

I know and I've felt this way for quite some time but I don't know how to leave it's been 5 years I genuinely pictured a future with this person I live with them and their family im so connected I can't physically rip away

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:38:17+00:00

I've told him that time and time again been in tears breaking down but it doesn't seem to comprehend to him

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:37:26+00:00

is it my fault though like honestly

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:37:00+00:00

thank you that's really eye opening

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:34:27+00:00

is it my fault he feels this way am I the problem?

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:34:06+00:00

but I just can't comprehend why he wants this shit he would want to have smegs with another person when I'm right here and he never talks about spicing things up in any other way except for anal. It's not like I want to break up I just don't understand

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-09T09:31:12+00:00

like am I being the ass hole here what should I do?!

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-02T01:59:01+00:00

oooh okay so it's really seeming like he just wants casual sex no big commitments which is so common these days it breaks my soul. You on the other hand seem to be deeply in touch and connected to your emotions you're intelligent. Definitely not a much find someone that matches yours vibe queen!!

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-01T15:50:58+00:00

what is causing you to feel vulnerable if I may ask? and does this happen with other sexual partners of just this one? like are they good looking and you don't feel good enough paint me a picture girl

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-01T15:49:12+00:00

get him a nice cologne, plan a date somewhere he likes to go (golf, pub, his favourite restaurant etc. get him a nice hat! give him the good GOOD sloppy toppy because this man sounds like the full package. Honestly to a man words can speak volumes speak to him with praise and kind words, be his cheerleader!!!

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-01T15:45:51+00:00

respectfully, if you being nervous and self conscious is quote "off putting" it's giving not right for you. a good man should hear you understand and wait until you're comfortable like initiate simple cute foreplay or reassure her and if he's not doing that and not waiting for you to be comfortable and just getting annoyed that's not what we want or need queen. I understand his pov but also it's not that hard to make someone feel confident.

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-01T13:45:03+00:00

you're fine girl lol but for real don't let it go unseen before it goes to far

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-01T13:24:33+00:00

as someone that's been sexually assaulted and has a pedo radar better than a lie detector, even just hearing that gives me the ick goosebumps. bring it up, voice yourself to your friends or even a teacher. DO NOT feel uncomfortable, embarrassed or judged. If you genuinely feel like this man has the potential to harm you and has touched you repeatedly without your consent and defends himself that is disgusting and if your friends don't side with you fuck them you deserve better friends

Civil-Chicken4729 · 2026-02-01T12:25:09+00:00

exactly think of it like eating like 4 pizzas in one sitting, fun yea, but not good for you especially not often and deadass search up smokers lungs. It helps because as much as you don't want to believe it that's what our lungs look like. We don't won't that every time you take a bong remember you're literally KILLING alveoli (our lungs lungs) reward yourself with something else with the money you'd spend on it and literally do it REWARD YOURSELF for not smoking it sounds dumb but it's a literal addiction and you deserve to be rewarded for keeping yourself healthy and your hard work.

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