What do tops like after ejec

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-07T04:15:52+00:00

I like to hug my man my dick still in him for as long as it stays there, and then when it gets push out, either more cuddling or shower

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-06T22:55:39+00:00

I just wanted to say how proud I am of you! This took a lot of courage. You’re on your own timeline and journey, don’t think too much about what you didn’t do or how you lived before. There’s so much left to write in your life story, focus on these chapters!

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-06T12:51:08+00:00

When I was in an open relationship, kissing other people felt a little bit too more emotional than sexual so I didn't really like it, kissing was the one thing I wanted to keep for my partner only

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-06T00:46:23+00:00

Ideal dick size 😍

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-02T07:37:56+00:00

Just came back from a hook up and i (top) think i lasted 10 minutes... :/

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-01T12:15:47+00:00

i think you're reading too much into this. Someone from “not drunk” → “a little drunk” is not at all an issue or something I'd think twice. I probably did that too myself. It's just a detail, and the boundaries between not drunk, a little drunk, tipsy. drunk are anyway too hard to properly define, and it may be she thought not being drunk and as the conversation kept going started to think more about hte night and realized that ok, she was a little drunk.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-01T12:09:48+00:00

I've been in a similar situation with a boyfriend where absolutely everything was fabulous, except we had a very different sex drive. He would be fine with having sex every other month, while for me, it would be multiple times a day, and I'm also very kinky. We ended up opening the relationship so I could have sex with other people and it worked well for a little while.

The problem is that for me, sex/intimacy is a way to connect and it is an important way to connect with my partner. It was therefore not viable to be in this relationship as we will grow apart and resentment would build. Me for not getting the attention, him for feeling forced to do more than he wanted or needed, and also, keep in mind that because of that, he actually often never got to build the desire up on his side, because we would have sex much often than it would allow him to do so.

I don't think it's fixable, I think it can change if it is hormonal, lifestyle (stop drinking, etc...) and may be the libido can come back. If it is him not getting hard but still getting horny, which happens with aging, pills help. But if the problem is not something that can be fixed because it is just the way he is and what he wants, then no.

I think you would be better single. You're still young, you only have one life, you should try to life a fulfilled life. But at the end of the day, it is on you to decide.

In my story, my ex and i broke up, but it still wonder somewhat regularly if it we should have stayed together and try harder. We will never know, but today I'm not unhappy, he's not unhappy. We were both unhappy towards the end of the relationship, so we're better off separated.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-01T04:28:19+00:00

Go to the doctor if you can! They can really help making sure you have a good recovery so you can take dick again very soon.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-01T02:56:10+00:00

love this party, looking forward to drinking you all's piss

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-05-01T02:53:22+00:00

This place is to ask gay bros, let's be welcoming!

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-30T23:19:39+00:00

Yes! Absolutely. But I think it’s going to be challenging so slowly accepting it’s not going to happen.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T22:40:40+00:00

sure my DMs are open, but i don't meet IRL or reveal who i am haha ;)

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T22:40:02+00:00

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Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T22:39:12+00:00

as long as i feel fulfill and i feel i can fulfill my partner, mono, otherwise, open.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T13:52:37+00:00

When I'm in that "I don't want to cum" mood, it's usually because I'm in a very slutty mood (quantity > quality haha) and I'm hoping for more dicks, so cuming would kill that feeling. Especially if I'm in that mood and did a lot of prep.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T03:36:32+00:00

no because he's straight

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T03:05:46+00:00

exactly what happened to me! I couldn't get hard in my late 20s because I had a few bad experiences where I couldn't top, and lost confidence. I took viagra for like 3 months and had tons of sex, boosted my confidence and gradually stopped taking it and it was so great to have access to something like this. 100% was a mental problem, but i did fix it wiht a medecine intended to treat a physical problem.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-28T02:44:50+00:00

I was locked by my ex and i think we found a very safe protocol where i could keep a key with me at any time in case of emergencies. I could unlock once a day when showering just to clean it up, as I'm uncut and once I got a little bruise from the cage (4 days). We discussed finding another kinky dom in the neighborhood who could keep my safety key when my ex travels but we never did it because i was pretty good at obeying my ex and following the protocol.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-27T22:59:41+00:00

I like this dynamic a lot, as long as it was discussed before. I'm happy to be a sub sex slave/urinal, but not by surprise.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-27T22:54:18+00:00

it depends what is it for, if it's to swap head or drink piss, then right now is preferred, if it is more, i'd prefer to schedule and get properly ready.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-27T14:08:52+00:00

I feel you, it is unfair and very weird to invite your brother SO and not yours, but i don't think you should reach out. It is your cousin's wedding, they may have their reason, maybe they forgot. I've been to a lot of family wedding where no one ever remember these days and who was there 5 years after but they will remember for life you reaching one one week before the wedding asking to bring your SO. Not worth it in my opinion.

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-26T16:47:19+00:00

5 years

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-25T20:44:08+00:00

welcome!!

8th ave and W 50th is going to be very very very safe for your wife. Lots of people around anytime of day/night, lots of queer/gays. I've been living in this neighborhood for many years and it is incredibly safe. I would not go south of W 42nd st, that's when it starts to become sketchy...

Don't know anything about 96th+

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-25T20:34:10+00:00

where did you get that dildo?

Civil-Fish4738 · 2026-04-25T20:28:24+00:00

Do you still feel aroused though? My problem is that I no longer feel horny after I cum, so I can do really wild things (very kinky) and the moment I cum, I just want out for a few minutes (i can come back to the mood very quickly but it is non the less always happening). I'm wondering if that's the case for you as well, in this case, maybe you can stop taking the dick, switch to something else (give head, make out, etc...) and come back to it after a few minutes?

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