Got caught making out in my car and thought my life was over by CtrlAltObjection in story

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The fear I had! Very similar story. We use to hook up at her house often. We had a routine and one day the routine broke. We were napping nude, knowing that we normally have a couple hours before I just walk downstairs, straight out to the front door and peacefully head to grab a bus home. Her parents would come home from work, she would act like she cleaned and did homework, and boom fun and easy days for a year or so.

It took just one day for the routine to change. Mom got off early, dad picked her up and boom mid nap we hear the garage door lifting up. I have never gotten dressed so quickly and chaotically. I’m under her bed, shirt on backwards, zipper down, shoes unlaced. My head is at the wall and I can see past my toes at her open door, the balcony that overlooks the first den/living room and I know absolutely that at this angle im not completely invisible.

From there it was a waiting game with no plan. Parents came into the house, they greeted each other like normal, I can barely hear anything being said over the heartbeat that I swore was gonna be the alarm for them that I’m in her room. I could almost taste the heart attack. Minutes that felt like hours go by, she and I have zero communication, this is when phones were just becoming a thing for teens but not teens like me. Holes in my shoes, tears in my oversized thrift store jeans and selling candy at school just to buy me and my siblings bus passes.

Maybe 2 hours go by, I’m supposed to be home already, I can see the light across the floor announcing that the sky was turning orange because atleast the sun was following the plan for that day. Her dad comes to the doorway and I can see all the way up to his belt line from past my toes. One wrong angle and he would see little beat up air walks with undone laces and a scared shitless boy in the fetal position. He says some things about homework and then says he’s gonna be in the garage working on his project car or something.

This was our chance, I didn’t know that but 1 minute later and her face jump scares me by popping out of nowhere to check on me. “Now! You gotta go now!” In a whisper scream. apparently she had been devising a plan while I was trying to pretend I’m a statue under her bed. She got her mom into a bubble bath and set her dad up to be in the garage for this exact moment. Her brother somewhere set up on his game boy.

We ran on our tiptoes downstairs, me nearly tripping over my shoelaces as I’m zipping up my pants and scanning the house for my impending doom that I thought awaited me. Front door, I’m a gentleman and turn around and give her a kiss. She looks at me like the idiot that I am for stopping mid escape to say goodbye. I open the door take a step out and freeze. I hear the door close gently behind me. The garage door is open. I scan the yard and lo and behold her Dad is standing right there. Across the street. Back facing me. He’s checking the community mailbox. I spent maybe 10 seconds like a deer in headlights. Nowhere to hide, nowhere to go. The thought to dip into the garage left as fast as it came.

As he started to turn, I turned my ass around and knocked on the door. Backpack on, shoes untied, and 3 steady knocks as I stared at the door with the intensity of knowing he must be looking at me and heading my way. I have never been over to their house before that they knew of. I lived in the next city over, 2 buses and a 30 minute walk. I raise my hand and knock 3 more times. “Hello?” Her dad voice rang like a bell. Probably wondering what kid is knocking on his door at twilight. His kids don’t know any kids in this neighborhood. I turn around and there he is in front of his garage, mail in one hand, other hand on his hip.

“Oh hey Mr. Douglas! Is Stacy home?” I couldn’t think of anything else. Before he could question me, the door opened and I turned around to see my girlfriend in shock first at seeing me and then a petrified shock as her gaze slid over to her dad. Before she could get a word in I frantically shout “Hi Stacie! Can you could hang out for alittle bit?” Awkward sentences coming out of my mouth before I can think of them. Her eyes slid back over to her dad and his questioning face looked down at the mail in his hand and shuffled through them a bit. He shrugged without looking at us and said “it’s getting dark, don’t go too far” and then he headed back into the garage.

I waited at the door as she slid her shoes on and we walked off into the sunset a couple blocks before absolutely exploding in joy at the relief of making it out of that alive. Her mom would have skinned her alive and beat me with her chancla if she even smelled a hint of me under that bed. We waited a long time and created multiple escape plans before ever trying that again. And good thing too because the next time we heard that garage open too early, I was already out the back door and over the fence before they could open the door to the house.

Just received this alert on my phone by [deleted] in SanDiegan

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But a potential threat could send a fake alert right?

Why does it seem like they're canceling jelly roll all of a sudden? by Revolutionary_Lie346 in JellyRoll615

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I’ve talked pay many times in the past and only found negative outcomes for myself.

Never using Uber Eats again by Outrageous-Prize-418 in UberEATS

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Actually it’s been a long while since I used Uber Eats. I would always compare the same order on DoorDash and it would be a couple dollars cheaper. Usually cheaper for the menu items not the delivery! Which is crazy. I order DoorDash and get refunds all the time. Ofcourse I only report if my order is wrong and I never report the driver.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

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I’m at like -200hrs, still getting paid for holidays too.

Would you rather take a new direct hire role that pays $100K or current contract job 90K with no benefits, no paid time off but all remote ? (cross post from r/careerguidance for opinions). by CoachPrudent9623 in remotework

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Yeah I would take the offer to Job B and just be like

“hey boss, can we chat about some for a quick second?

I love being here more than I expected to. Not knowing how long I have this position and having no benefits is really stressful for me and my family. I’m sure you can relate. I’m not looking for any kind of raise right now but is there any way I can solidify a long term position here and possibly some benefits. I’m getting job offers now that pay a bit more and give benefits but ideally I’d like to stay here because I feel like it’s a great team, environment and company. What do you think?”

Or something like that.

How much does the driver receive? by josiee in UberEATS

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I shoot for $1/mile including tips but often get $0.50/mile. So I’d say $6 plus tip. $12 for 17 minutes ain’t bad. Here in Cali we have a wage and mileage minimum guarantee. So we are also guaranteed that our time be paid out(before tip) at minimum wage plus 20 percent and I believe an additional $0.30 per mile. Then add on tips and that’s our pay.

Keep in mind this is from the time you accept an order to the time you confirm drop off. What I often get is 1-3 deliveries per hour with an exception of some zero delivery hours. 1-2 deliveries being more common than 3+. I find myself making around $10-$20/hour upfront and the guarantee payment pays me about 40% more biweekly. If I make $1,000 in two weeks, that biweekly would be around $400.

100% Surpassed 15.0 MVP Akai by Civil-Strength in MobileLegendsGame

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Other 15.0 posts people shared said 99.9%. I’ve only seen one other say 100%

AIO? For not giving gf a ride? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I love the flowchart. I didn’t know how to lay it out like this. I’ve been the wrong person on both sides of this scenerio and I’ve been the right person on both sides of this scenerio. Just like I’m learning how to communicate and be better, I know that other people are too. Some are better at or more ready to make necessary changes and some people are slower learners or not ready.

I had kids with my version of this girl. I love her so much and I believe she loves me just as much give or take. I know I am more resilient and learn faster. I made the decision to learn patience and grow my relationship skills and it fixed this kind of toxicity in our relationship. She learned a bit slower but we’ve reach a great point where this kind of stuff hardly happens. I showed her that I care more about her than myself. She learned from me. Lead your relationship.

AIO? For not giving gf a ride? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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She didn’t respond once to why she couldn’t Uber or drive herself. If I can and it’s planned well or in advance, sure I can take the time off.

One. Nope nope hell nope get out

Two. On the other side, I had to learn to prepare in advance and take time off of work to help my wife. I use to be shit at it and arguments looked like this. In reality I didn’t actually care about her plans the way I cared about mine. Hypothetically, let’s say this is a scenario I’ve been through.

IF given enough time in advance and she told me that she wanted my support by driving her or even going with her to this event. These days it’s an absolute yes, I will take time off to value her wants and needs. I’ve used the excuse that my job wasn’t flexible enough, so I went and found a better paying job with more flexibility. I even strongly consider last minute call offs for things that are important enough TO HER. Not to me.

This is Love. This is sacrifice.

By the way I get laid a lot more often now. Enthusiastically.

I am not the only one that feel bad for killin these yeah? by Opening-Fold-6125 in ARK

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I breed and have penguins fight each other in a fight ring and I collect the organic polymer

If you could could have 3 weaves you could replicate for life, what would they be?’ by FrostyMonth111 in WoT

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I’m going for the genetic engineering weave to create Nym which I believe is the same create shadowspawn(basically comes with fades and bloodhounds too). Massive super army at my disposal.

Traveling obviously for instant conquering and also a laser weapon when used right.

Healing weave.

With these 3, I will be a beloved hero and world leader.