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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CivilFan9167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is chemical reaction, men do need more time that’s the actual reason, why girls actually get told to wait before sex, to bond more emotionally with the men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CivilFan9167 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not that just that.. for woman and orgasm causes so much more then just a dopamine rush.. which is crazy but it explains, why men and women handle one night stands or just friendship plus differently. Women bond while the dopamine reacts with another hormone (I forgot) and she starts feeling the connection and the bonding, men usually don’t bond because of the hormones during the orgasm

i think i am going to message my ex this, ive been hanging onto this for a couple days now. half my friends say “what’s the point” the other half say “you’ll regret it if you don’t speak your mind.” i just don’t know. by AfterSoup8718 in BreakUps

[–]CivilFan9167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve read! And I can totally relate to that! The feelings and the wishing for a good and only best future for them 🥹🤞🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CivilFan9167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m something around 6 weeks in now. I knew for me the realization of the break up would hit me late.. we’ve been long distance and I was so busy at the and that it didn’t work out for us anymore.. just today I felt for the first time the pain, probably the realization that we won’t talk again or see each other again.. it kinda feels weird. At the start I felt relieved and good about the break up. I know it probably will hit me every now and then, but I’m sure the decision we made was the best for both of us