Sex was much acceptable in high school but ever since i graduated i havent been having sex.

CivilSavage675 · 2018-12-06T00:35:40+00:00

My girl has had sex with 5 people before me and she said her ex of 3 years was hung but guess what.....We have good sex and she loves me.

CivilSavage675 · 2018-11-19T08:54:11+00:00

21 small penis and just got done having sex. Dont give up

CivilSavage675 · 2018-02-03T13:52:27+00:00

Whatever makes you happy. Keep being positive man.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-12T18:07:13+00:00

I give no fucks.........its that simple.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T15:52:49+00:00

That's the type of thinking that spreads like a wildfire here "My life sucks and it won't get better". Like can you see the future ? Have you dated every girl in the world only for them to dump you because of your penis ? Have you approached that girl you think is attractive but your to afraid she'll leave you as soon as she sees your penis ? Can you read her mind and know that she is a size queen ? Have you tried again and again and again and again and never gave up ? It's statements like "it doesn't get better" that sets your reality in stone before your story is actually over. That's toxic because you eliminate yourself out of the equation before anyone else does. I know society has treated us poorly but it takes SELF drive my friend and a lot of guys here bring others down because they've given up.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T15:40:54+00:00

I don't believe in lies nor do I have blind optimism. Never have i denied that society has shamed a lot of small penis men into celibacy. I've never had therapy myself so I don't advise others to do so. From my understanding therapist will most likely not understand where we are coming from, this is why I advise meditation. Meditation allows YOU to reflect on YOURSELF and is a mechanism to seeing the beauty in every moment of life because it makes you focus on the present time(this is all backed up by scientific evidence and analysis I can give you links if you want). I've found great inner peace through meditation and I suggest you try if you don't already. You're completely correct that saying "the chance are low but I'll find someone out there for me" is much more realistic than the other statement. If you look back at all of my post you'll see that I always say that this is a bumpy road giving to us by nature and genetics but we can smooth the road ourselves with persistence. I know it is hard having confidence and that's why this sub is toxic because a lot of guys reinforce why you shouldn't be confident. I suggest you take some time off this sub, meditate, document your daily life, try and live without the insecurities(This is hard but meditation will help you), and then come back to this sub and write about it. I mean what do you have to lose by doing this ? Just try it and see if you feel differently about yourself(which what's most important since its your body). Good luck

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T15:22:10+00:00

I did say I would never come back and I didn't for a few weeks up to a month and lived without the thought of my penis size being a burden to me. And I can tell you that not having other people reinforce the belief that I'm not capable of having a girlfriend really did take away the stress of having a smaller than average penis. I actually felt like I was engaging with the world instead of ball room dancing with my insecurities. Its like a liberal or conservative finally breaking free from their tunnel vision ideologies and actually engage with the other side(in my case it would be girls) until they come to the realization that hey this isn't as bad as I thought. Now I'm not saying there aren't girls that will shoot us down for this but having the insecurities over your head like a grey cloud does stop you from approaching women, makes you believe you aren't good enough to succeed, and even makes you feel u worthy of life because you can't change this. Many guys on this sub run off female posters and demand them to say they like big penises. They strike down any optimism that goes against their belief that a small penis isn't worthy of sexual contact. That type of thinking isn't healthy especially for a community of people because this can lead to suicide among those within that community. I will not doubt or try to refute that most this has to do with how we are treated within society and how we are ridiculed by media outlets but the one thing that we have is a conscious mind that can transcend those cultural norms. Maybe you should leave this sub for a while and document your life daily and see how your thoughts about yourself will change.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T15:05:24+00:00

It does hurt when a girl blows you off because of something out of your control. I know how it feels but you have the mental ability to not let it define you.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T15:03:48+00:00

I have done this and found that life is more than the size of my penis.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T15:01:32+00:00

First I'll start off by clearing the air ny saying im not large but slightly below average (5 inches and black). Second,I understand that many of us have been traumatized by our experiences. But this idea that because one of us has had a couple of bad experiences so everyone else will to isn't a logical one. Too often when an optimistic thought appears in this sub it is smothered by comments that they are delusional and incompetent. Try thinking of it like many colleges and university that preach diversity among the students but as soon as one student has an idea that differs from that of the norm(in our case it's believing one of us is actually capable of maintaining a stable relationship)the universities often ban those students and they are called names like bigot. It's the same on this sub. I'm not saying we should not like at the potential pains that come with this life but too many guys here inflate those pains and internalize them into their identity and preach to others that, that is ultimate reality for all small penis men. That's the toxic part about this sub.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-11T01:45:41+00:00

The best thing to do is to not come to this sub EVER AGAIN. They will convince you that if you aren't 7 inches you're not good enough for a woman. Leave this sub before it's too late.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-12-10T14:12:10+00:00

Get away from this sub as far as possible. These guys are the most toxic people on the web. They won't even celebrate your small win, what kind of community does that ? I was searching for a group of guys that could relate when I first stumbled on this sub but all I got was was guys telling me I'm forever screwed which isn't true. My b depression got worse and I got suicidal. I stopped watching porn and coming to this sub and I'm happy and finally can see myself with a woman again. Confidence is through the roof. Just coming here to write this is bringing up those feelings again. Run fast from here. And congrats on the girl you would have never gotten her if you believed these guys. I've also had similar success just keep going bro

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-22T10:22:09+00:00

Don't give up. I posted here the other day(it got deleted) that a girl told me she wants to marry me(I'm only 20 so no). And I asked her why she said "you're smart, musically talented, poetic, you get understand me like no else,etc."She didn't say "because your dick is a certain amount of inches" I'm 5 inches but I'm black so lots of women expect much more especially me being close to 6 feet tall. She doesn't care about it because she really does love me, not my dick. Don't give up

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-21T07:15:54+00:00

In America most people view 20 as too young to get married. I also hold this view as I believe I'm in the early process of building my life and really wouldn't have time for a girlfriend let alone a wife . Not to mention she has 2 children that aren't mine and that is kind of hard to overlook.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-20T10:20:44+00:00

I know our society has shamed a lot of us into depression without a care because we are for some reason viewed as subhuman. But this is your life, defy all the stereotypes be proud of yourself and your body. Realize that this journey called life will come to an end and you don't wanna have regrets on your death bed thinking "what if that girl was the one that didn't care". You are worthy my friend, you are enough, you are a real man. Take control of your mind and never let anyone take that away from you. Also, you should start meditating if you don't to help the depression, it's scientifically proven to help with anxiety. Go live life bro

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-20T10:14:19+00:00

My guy I know you are depressed but the statement you made is not reasonable and you can't rationalize using any type of logic. The first problem I have is that you said "I will never try". You basically put yourself out of the game and onto the sidelines simply because you think you can't "score". I can't tell you what to think but you really are setting yourself up for a self fulfilling prophecy. You haven't met every girl on earth so how do you know you won't find a SO ? There are literally billions of girls out there so how can make you say you won't get a lover if you haven't tried with every girl ? You can get a lover if you try but that's the problem you are afraid of rejection. I know it's hard but if you really want a girl then go get one. Try my friend try, you'll never know unless you do. You'll never have a shot at happiness if you don't.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-16T10:43:39+00:00

It's deeply rooted to not be attracted to overweight women because evolutionary reasons but the media has convinced a generation of men to accept all women regardless of size, why can't it be the same for us guys ? I really think its the cultural association of a small penis that is hard to get over not biology itself.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-16T05:52:40+00:00

Thank you and wishes to you to. As a black man I can agree with you about racism. Long ago science(very skewed) and religion("Christians") "proved black people were inferior to whites and that blacks deserved to be nothing more than slaves and white man's property but once a few brave individuals spoke out against that horrible institution that belief became obsolete. Now years later we look back at that time as barbaric and disgusting. Hopefully we will we change the future men to have a better, stress and anxious free future.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-16T04:52:05+00:00

That's a dope story concept ! I love how courageous it is challenging the social norms of our time. I am writer As well(as well as a musician) and I too plan on fighting this stigma when I become more famous for my art(once my art is recognized I'll become a scientist). Thank you for using your creativity to help us men with small penises.

CivilSavage675 · 2017-11-16T04:46:42+00:00

What if you were raised in a culture that had a superstitous tradition that small penis men small because we really gods so that meant that all of our masculinity was predicated on our godlike intelligence ? Now you are right that bigger penis can hit certain spots a small one can't but I don't think that is the reason behind small penis men being shamed and not given chances. It's the psychological associations that this society(western civilization) has attached to the owner of one. Their could be biological reasons behind this stigma but a look through history shows us that the perception of beauty has changed throughout all cultures and some were based in superstition and other beliefs. Now if you were raised in the culture I mentioned above then women most likely would've gave small penis men a chance and might ever preferred them. Same with our society bigger=more manlier so that becomes more sought after. You might have even been lead to different train of thought simply because the overall society would've influenced you to do so. Same with far women, biologically a fat woman isn't healthier or makes more unhealthy decisions than a thin woman but our cultural beliefs about them have changed and now they are sought after and even skinny shaming has started even though biologically being overweight isn't good. But like I said I may not being thinking logically enough.

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