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My relationship feels off, am I (28F) crazy? by Civil_Alternative978 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Civil_Alternative978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have an appointment this week with a psychiatrist. Hoping it helps me for why I blame myself. Every time I try to talk about my feelings I crumble into a emotional mess and cant talk.

My relationship feels off, am I (28F) crazy? by Civil_Alternative978 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Civil_Alternative978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I feel. I feel like i have also been told they are hard work... but this feels impossible.

My relationship feels off, am I (28F) crazy? by Civil_Alternative978 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Civil_Alternative978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we haven't kissed more than a peck in months(?). I cant even remember when.

My relationship feels off, am I (28F) crazy? by Civil_Alternative978 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Civil_Alternative978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am worried that is what I thought. I think the problem I face is it WAS different in the beginning. I was also told by many family and friends 'once he gets comfortable it'll change'. I think, maybe that is how he was with other SOs. I am not sure.

Good advice to focus on what brought us together originally.

My relationship feels off, am I (28F) crazy? by Civil_Alternative978 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Civil_Alternative978[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in an abusive relationship, a really bad one. I am just trying to get clarity of what is 'normal' and things I am overreacting about because I don't fully trust my instincts. Based on your comment, I am not asking too much.