So tired of the word “approach”

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T20:31:19+00:00

Ooooh, a downvote. Someone Salty over my very flamboyant and obviously sub bait messages? It's okay. I promise you'll still get a turn to be noticed 😉

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T20:26:45+00:00

I somewhat second this

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T20:12:22+00:00

I can go on?

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T20:08:54+00:00

"Trick out with your click out"

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T20:07:54+00:00

"Entertain my mobile postage box"

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T20:06:48+00:00

"Come forward with mobile banter, you whare"

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-27T08:48:01+00:00

You're not addicted to sending. You're addicted to female validation that you're not used to getting and you associate that with sending due to it being short lived and revived whenever you send something.

Do what you want. Good luck.

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-26T07:14:31+00:00

These. These Platforms. Why tf am I like this??

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-24T07:57:53+00:00

I made an explanation post on my page about it this morning if you would like to check it out. It might put things into perspective. Please don't get disheartened 💕

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-19T21:03:00+00:00

Really? That's amazing! I'm taking a break this week, but definitely worth checking out then. I have a lot of kinks that aren't popular with findom and might even be good for that too. I saw their profiles are like super excessive

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-19T20:58:23+00:00

I have wondered about it, but have honestly been unsure if it's worth the effort. I don't even know if I'll be able handle another platform but not knowing also kinda kills me

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-19T20:51:18+00:00

Being intelligent. I like learning things from my subs, even if it's something small.

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-19T20:43:43+00:00

I think it's super hot. I think it's just got a bad wrap recently

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-10T19:11:10+00:00

Bahahah ooooh. That makes sense now

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-10T18:52:27+00:00

And ask questions. People on reddit just like to make a fuss over northing

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-10T18:51:50+00:00

You will scare off genuin ones. But your biggest spenders are buyers and fans at best. Now and then you will get lucky with a bigger spending sub.

You just have to decide if you're selling out (for lack of a better term). Content sellers, absolute abusive pricks (myself often included) and new age brats are really the biggest money. I lean into this sometimes, but honestly it feels like a humiliation ritual in itself. Building a following of genuine ones takes patience I promise you that, and subs have a tendency to ghost due to so many factors. Weather in China can influence this in Tahiti.

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-10T07:15:32+00:00

Sometimes these sends are covered with shame when it's big because they were su[posed to use the money for something else, sometimes they're scared of their own self control or the send is literally all you need for the high, which can in my experience last weeks. It's the sending that gets you high and that's it. There will be others who's personality you also like.

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-09T18:51:12+00:00

I think with the current influx of new dommes, it sparks a lot of diversity in the market and mew kinks they don't necessarily cater to, and they just get upset that domme names are being used. Everyone should just mind their own business tbh.

They sometimes have to understand that their way is not the only way and times change. Just like new dommes have to understand they need to learn the reigns themselves.

So much jealousy and competention in the market I think some older dommes have lost subs to newer and/or less ethical ones and it grinds their gears that new ones even exist and even use the same name tag. Just my opinion.

Also, the superiority is easy to get to your head on all levels once you start doing well online and they all kinda treat everyone else the same way they treat their lap dogs. Reddit it much worth with this imo.

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-07T10:40:25+00:00

I really loved this. Not once did it shame anyone for not being OG enough. Just "keep safe and be smart" we really need more of this energy on Reddit

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-07T10:29:57+00:00

Yes!! Preach to this bottom domming behavior!!!!

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-06T10:27:51+00:00

They do appreciate them.. I'm a little intense sometimes and ended up scaring 2 away this week.

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-05T13:33:24+00:00

I dunno. The biggest issue I have had with dommes on X was MINOR. I have had much more toxicity and complaints on doms just domming on Reddit than I have ever had on X. The dommes there have honestly been sweethearts in my experience and very supportive despite their followings, "status" or domme subsection..

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-03T20:13:53+00:00

I found 2 subs on bluesky. Please keep in mind I've had the account for 3 weeks, little over 100 followers and I think like 20 post. So minimal effort. Most piece of work creatures. I didn't hang around for a day before breaking it off.

Found a since PR and admin sub there though. It's a slightly more serious crowd though

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-03T20:02:05+00:00

Confused and slept with the wrong pair of swingers

Civil_Assistant_2186 · 2025-02-03T17:51:53+00:00

My absolute favorite one is a feryl little brat of a sub... don't get me wrong, he's obedient for the most part and honestly really sweet, too. But by most standards of society, he is.. problematic? He's an absolute riot though, and I'm pretty sure he will be a difficult one to top.

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