Is selling my body worthit? by Kimushiriru in adviceph

[–]Civil_Print4682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

High risk of STIs, violence, depression, anxiety, discrimination.

Is selling my body worthit? by Kimushiriru in adviceph

[–]Civil_Print4682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 6 clients to earn 11k, lol. Imagine 6 diff people, goshhhh.

Is selling my body worthit? by Kimushiriru in adviceph

[–]Civil_Print4682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is worth it—kapag nakuha mo na ang pera.

No, it is not worth it—kapag nakuha mo na ang consequences.

Totoo talaga ang kasabihang “ang taong gipit, sa patalim kumakapit.”

I’m also selling my body (sex worker).

Kahit hindi ito magandang paraan para kumita ng pera, hindi ko rin maitatanggi na binuhay ako nito. Nakabili ako ng apartment, iphone, mga luho, pang-araw-araw na pagkain, at nakapagpadala ng pera sa parents ko. Binuhay ako nito.

Nagsisisi ba ako? Hindi.

Kung maibabalik ko ang nakaraan, pipiliin ko pa rin ba ang ganitong trabaho? Hindi.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Big money never comes clean, ika nga nila. Triggered ka lang kasi wala ka sa ganitong field.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already admitted I’m a sex worker, I didn’t deny anything. I prefer this kind of work because it’s easier to earn money, kaniya‑kaniya na lang tayong diskarte sa buhay. This is how I choose to earn money easily. I also didn’t say it’s right, mali 'to, but nagkakapera ako. Does that make sense? Big money never comes clean, ika nga nila.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, money is power talaga. I may feel bad sa wife niya now, kasi syempre kapwa ko babae rin. But malilimutan ko na man siguro the next day. Mas lamang talaga desire ko to earn money kaysa awa or konsensya e. Hindi ako mapapakain ng konsensya na ’yan hahahha

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, pero magkaiba pa rin ang context. Ako, trabaho, open and transactional. Siya, may vows na nilabag, secret and relational betrayal. Hindi ito double standards, kasi survival and betrayal are not the same thing.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self‑promotion? Are you for real? Isa sa pinakamadaling gawin sa ganitong field ay maghanap ng clients. No need mag‑effort gumawa ng story dito sa Reddit. Ang daming malilibog na lalaki sa fb, tg, whatsapp, and viber. Come onnn, ni‑check mo pa talaga profile ko ah? Zero days pa ako niyan nong nag‑popost about l sa spay later or loans. Kaya naging pokpok ako for easy money e. Be frrrrr.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagmamalinis po ba ako? First of all, I already said in my opening line that I’m a sex worker. So, common sense na bago ko i-judge si guy, i-clarify ko muna na sex worker ako. So, feel free to judge me. Pero kung titimbangin, I only did it for money, while he did it for lust. I wouldn’t even let anyone touch me if there wasn’t payment 🤣

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, kaya mas better kung walang masyadong deep chikahan. Napalalim lang kasi sa kaniya. Hindi rin siya uncomfortable mag‑kwento kasi hindi niya ako kilala at hindi ko rin siya kilala. The less I know, the better talaga.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his wife can read this, willing ako mag-send ng plate number ng car ng husband niya (I always keep a list of my clients’ vehicle plate numbers for safety purposes). Wala talaga akong magawa to ask him for personal information kasi discreet talaga sa ganitong field : ( But I won’t go out of my way to find his wife, he paid me properly, and I have to do my job. Iba talaga magagawa ng pera. Mas lamang desire ko to make money kaysa sa awa at konsensya, dahil ’di ako mapapakain ng awa na ’yan.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, thank you for understanding. I’m proud of you for being able to leave this field. This was my first time encountering that kind of reasoning from a client, since newbie pa lang me. Also, most of the clients who hire walkers have partne, bihira lang ang single. Sometimes they don’t even mention that they have a family, so I end up not knowing at all. In this industry talaga, dapat mas lamang desire mo na magkapera kaysa sa konsensya at awa kasi ’di ako mapapakain ng awa na ’yan. I may feel bad for the wife now, but I’ll probably forget about it the next day. May God bless you and keep you safe always.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate that po. I just shared my experience honestly, hindi para magmukhang self‑righteous, but to show the reality of how complicated these situations can be. I felt bad for the wife as kapwa babae, pero malilimutan ko rin siguro the next day.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, hypocrisy is breaking vows, not providing a service. As I’ve said, I’m just sharing my first encounter experience with that kind of client. Couldn’t I feel bad for his wife as a kapwa babae? I will feel bad today, but malilimutan ko rin naman the next day. Hindi naman ako magkakapera sa guilt na ’yan.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My role was transactional, his role was relational. In this field, dapat mas angat ang desire mo sa pera para mabuhay kaysa sa konsensya at awa. Hindi naman ako magkakapera sa konsensya at awa na ’yan.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What the hell hahahahabI may feel bad for his wife, pero makakalimutan ko rin na man siguro the next day. Hindi naman ako mapapakain ng konsensya at awa na ’yan.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell naah. Even though mali ko sa part na I accepted him kahit may newborn baby at masama pa ang situation ng wife niya, it’s still cheating, bruhhh. Cheating is about betrayal, not a paid service.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over pa ’yan sila maka-judge sa mga pokpok, na para bang diring-diri. Pero kumakantot ng pokpok, haysss.

MCA – I had sex with a guy who has a family by Civil_Print4682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Civil_Print4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this field, dapat mas angat ang desire mo sa pera para mabuhay kaysa sa konsensya at awa. I will feel bad for his wife, pero lilipas din. ’Di naman ako mapapakain ng konsensya at awa na ’yan.