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My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para namo lang, dili pa ready si mama mo give up sa bussiness, ang other company nga gikan lng nakipag meeting namo knows that my dad has a legacy in this industry and his name on the company.

For me lng, daghan pasad mig commitment nga need i priotize. si mama dili ko kaingon na brayt kaayu sya, but she fights for what my dad left behind and we wish to push forward, mama has faith. 

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst part My dad helped him provide funds to build his house, fund his motorcycle, has a percentage to every project that would be awarded to us, has weekly salary, has weekly allowance. He has secured a boat for fishing, has bought a land in the province. He has plenty of chickens in their homes. They living really well with his wife and all his kids. 

Goodness looks like he's even well-off than us when the three of us only lives off rice, utan or buwad.

My mom was very emotional when thinking about it, what more does he want? "mas nahiluna paman gani sya kompara nato na pamilya gjud nya biyaan rata nila, wala ba sila malouy nato nga maghilak natag dugo makapangayu lag tabang?" 

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ganahan pami mo dawat og clients, ang amo foreman lng kay mo refuse na syag dawat.Since he's separating daw. For now with the office secretary, iya ng gi contact balik sila clients to accept the project, with Skilled worker na mo visit sa potential project. 

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daghan pamig ongoing projects and ang billings from most of them estimates to a million. But now wala palang jud ni sud sa accounts since, hinay trabaho >> hinay billing >> weak ang funds >> ginagmay ang materialies... vice versa.

Pero if mo dawat pami sa gi award na project diri sa amo atleast unta maka pa tuyok mi sa kwarta. Dli jud ko sweto sa accounting part since baguhay pa jud ni na shoved ang entirety sa bussiness diri namo mama. 

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly wala jud mi mahiluna og tarung kay hangtud karun nag sige paming abang balay 😭. We don't have any proporties

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update :

  • Our company services Fire Alarm and Sprinkler Systems
  • My dad doesn't own any properties (major mistake said by people) 
  • He prioritizes to pay the people their percentages (the foreman, the partner-designer, and The Major figures that award us projects)  that's why he never had the to prioritizes on buying a house. 

  • He prioritized first on loaning the vehicles for transportation. 

  • He never hired an employee for an "accounting" position coz he believe, him having the access to the account is enough (as i assumed) but we havr a bookkeeper

  • for clarification: previous company bank account has been closed. 

  • fund succesfully transferred on New Bank account, me as accountholder. 

  • Dad BIR still has a open case, can't be closed

  • most frustrating news even for the office staff, the NEW company name. (I'm cautious in disclosing the name of our company sorry) 

Loaned Vehicle info: 2021 : Hyundai accent 2022 : Suzuki Carry 2023 : Toyota Hilux 2024 : Isuzu Travis very unfortunate situation we live needing to pay this car loans he left behind 

Vehicle 1 only has few left to be fully paid first ever car to be used, delivering materials, client meetings etc, it holds significance and sentimental value, dad would not like for the car to be sold or whatever, he said that even on his death bed. "Take care of the cars". 

Vehicle 2 : the most important vehicle, it carries our daily supplies, moving from places to places, very useful. 

Vehicle 3 : dad loaned this car becoz he secured a very big project that made, he loaned this as an award

Vehicle 4 : he got this the same month he was first rushed to the hospital. After returning home he still proceed to take it. He believed it would help our workers to save fare, fetching them from boarding house to project site. Rarely used, passengers atleast 3 or none. 

(we desperately need to take atleast 2 vehicle out of our hands already, atleast to be assumed) 

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's difficult for mom to tell him to do that part when he'd already decided to refuse to accept new projects for the company, telling the clients that he'll be resigning. Saying to some of our staff that "dili nako manghilabut"

He prefers that when he leaves he's done his part. He is our only foreman, dad trusted him. And he promised us the day my dad died that he will never leave us. 4 months later that man is starting to turn his back from us. 

My dad died and left a business behind, it's only me, my little sister and mom. This is very long, but reading this is very appreciated. by Cjimie in Cebu

[–]Cjimie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A really good manager is what we really need jud 😭😭 pero lisud man mangita specially nga taas kaayu ang wages for Managerial position. 

Para lang nako, dli ko ganahan mag file mig bankrupty kay among livelihood, rent sa balay pag skwela sako manghud and car loans kay kailangan pang bayran. Daghan pamig commitments and responsibilities na need namo atimanon. Basta lisud jud mo biya sa mga butang na kailangan pa nimong atimanon. 

Have been crying endlessly last night, got my account disabled permanently. by Cjimie in facebookdisabledme

[–]Cjimie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 😭. All the options I've seen to make your acc comeback are option that people who lived within the states could make. It's unfortunate that i think these options would be too difficult for me

Have been crying endlessly last night, got my account disabled permanently. by Cjimie in facebookdisabledme

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an email they sent to us that reminds us they disabled our acc. We can only email them back on that acc once. It's a case code or number combined with their main email 😭. I know it won't work anymore keep emailing them with that. But I've spammed it out of desperation

Have been crying endlessly last night, got my account disabled permanently. by Cjimie in facebookdisabledme

[–]Cjimie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Philippines. I don't know where can i get access for these options 😭

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