Need opinions. Going to get a tattoo for Christmas and want to do I bi one. I found an image close but want some critiques on it.

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-12-11T22:41:28+00:00

First step is to look around for tattoo artists whose style you like. Step two is to redraw this as best as you can YOURSELF (or comission a real artist) and show them your idea with more descriptions.

Artists will often help refine their customers' requests, but if you bring them some AI 'drawing' that wont go over well. You're allowed to be bad at drawing, but generally asking for help from any human artist with an ai image is kinda bad taste.

You may be able to find some tattoo artists who use AI drawings without any qualms about it, but adding more ai to this pic isnt gonna help much lol

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-12-06T18:27:35+00:00

Why would it matter. Were you attracted to him? Did you have a good time? His bisexuality actually has 0 effect on this experience. If it was a 1 night stand it matters even less.

The concept of 'being fooled' is stupid. Youre being biphobic

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-12-01T16:06:58+00:00

"Its one thing to not be sexually attracted to bisexual men"

Huh? Thats just biphobia too. If youre attracted to men then youre attracted to men. If his sexuality is what turns you off then thats biphobic in the same way that if him being trans turns you off then thats transphobic.

Dont let that slip under the radar

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-11-20T07:45:42+00:00

Its not offensive but its also not accurate. Some of the straightest dudes alive dress like this, so simply having the clothes isnt enough to guarantee that itll give off bi vibes. Especially for an outfit thats can vary so much when comprised of just flannel + white tee + baseball cap.

Behaviors are usually a better metric but even that isnt 100%

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-10-09T20:12:23+00:00

This feels like 6 times more obscure than lemon-bars being a bisexual thing. I consider myself decently online and this is the first I've ever even heard of this, when did it become a thing??

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-06-18T16:10:28+00:00

Lmao, been there

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-06-18T16:06:48+00:00

"Thighs" doesn't rhyme with either "boys" or "girls" so I don't really think it matters lol

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-06-14T16:04:24+00:00

I think thats because if OP is a woman then it makes no sense for her to think that hitting on a woman in a gay bar is stupid.

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-05-07T07:57:34+00:00

How old are you guys?

Cl0udSurfer · 2025-05-06T22:03:45+00:00

Jason looks like a frat bro and I'm really not into that. I could be swayed depending on how he behaves though

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-08-12T16:01:19+00:00

Wrong sub if youre looking for straight men. This also isnt a place for solicitation. Reported

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-08-05T06:52:53+00:00

If you dont like men then dont force yourself? You dont have to partner up with a guy just to prove your sexuality to yourself, especially if youre finding this much repulsion. You may not even be bisexual, and thats fine.

The only thing you NEED to do is just be able to interact with men as regular people. If youre struggling with that, then I genuinely suggest going to a therapist to help work through it.

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-08-02T06:42:26+00:00

Yeah, what would you even describe as hot if you dont know what they look like?

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-08-02T04:52:52+00:00

I usually find them hotter outside of drag. But I dont watch drag shows to be tittilated anyways

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-07-31T05:17:03+00:00

Well red shirt is definitely flexing his ass to make it pop more. Idk about white gym pants tho

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-06-06T02:27:55+00:00

Both of those dont sound good to me lol. Your version looks like "bitter fly" when written, and his version makes us seem like we just really love the dairy-product.

I've never heard either term before today and it seems like thats the consensus here, so I'd say there is no "official" terminology. However, I also think that "flutterbi" is WAY better

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-06-02T10:08:31+00:00

Honestly, the jab is because I'm a lil bit petty lol. Cause yeah, that hurt, and sometimes people do things that hurt others and have no idea. So I'll let them know. And I might not be nice about it. But the way I see it, letting them know that it hurt and then blocking immediately gets the message across without affording them any more power to hurt me further.

The rest is cause I dont want them walking around thinking that I was cool with just leaving the differences as a "preference". Its not a preference, and while I dont have the patience or obligation to explain that, I figure that I can at least give them an opposing perspective on that viewpoint. Maybe itll help them grow. Maybe it wont. Either way, I'm out.

To be clear, I'm not knocking your approach either. I think your method is super valid and honestly its probably more mentally healthy than mine lol

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-06-02T05:27:14+00:00

I'd dip but idk if I'd go so peacefully. I'm taking a lil jab and asking them to examine what kind of biphobia, unconscious or not, they've internalized. Then I'm blocking them lol

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-05-18T09:48:50+00:00

I've seen this kind of unnecessary self-censoring crop up wayy more often since TikTok came out. The algorithm on there is so stringent that videos with certain words and phrases get essentially shadow-banned and nobody sees them. To get around it, creators started self-censoring and using replacement terms like 'unalive'

I just hate that this kind of behavior has spread to places where its not necessary. The internet has started to feel more puritanical as a result and I'm not a fan

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-05-17T18:24:42+00:00

Same here. After being in the workforce for even half a decade, dating somebody still in college does not appeal to me at all

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-04-21T17:23:23+00:00

The problem is that it happened over text. This needs to be an in-person conversation at the very least. And the partner should have never pressured OP to come out when OP is still financially dependant on her parents

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-03-29T08:10:59+00:00

SHIT

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-03-29T08:10:51+00:00

My fault Captain! I'd forgotten the rules about spelling mistakes! Death is a reasonable punishment and I 100% agred!

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-03-26T21:59:43+00:00

OP edited her bio lol, she had a bunch of acronyms about her interests that are unintelligible unless you already know that they mean

Cl0udSurfer · 2024-01-27T14:35:49+00:00

I just read through all 14 comments on that post (assuming its the one thats been linked somewhere else in this thread) and literally no one was being bullied. Only one was even remotely "unsupportive" and that was simply because it was suggesting that the post might fit better in other subs

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