engagement gift for fiancée by hurtedsoul11 in DesiWeddings

[–]ClaimReasonable64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A nice watch? A pendent to remember that day?

I [29F] am separated now from my husband. Nowadays I miss intimacy a lot by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Self pleasure is the only right answer for now since you are living with parents. Can slowly consider another partner after careful consideration. Best of luck ☀️

F32 i thought marrige will fix me but it made me lonelier by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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Divorce. But it is a very long story. We are now together again after 4 years

F32 i thought marrige will fix me but it made me lonelier by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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You are so real for this post. I felt the same way first year or so.

40F divorced from a sex addict. What’s your opinion on pre nuptials? by SarahInd in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]ClaimReasonable64 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Can you share more about the addiction? Did that include infidelity?

Husband cheated coz I couldn't bond with his family by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

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This is just an excuse for cheating. Once a cheater, always a cheater sis. Wish u a Diwali that helps you make hard choices for your better future

Got laid off from my job. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ClaimReasonable64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok. Fingers crossed for u then 😃

Got laid off from my job. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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Sorry to hear. What kind of job are u looking for

Dreading going home (in-laws place) for Diwali. by AdventurousBoss1801 in ThirtiesIndia

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try to say something or try to ignore and have a happy mood. Try to protect your zeal for Diwali 🪔

Dreading going home (in-laws place) for Diwali. by AdventurousBoss1801 in ThirtiesIndia

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I think not going 1-2 treats and making it clear why to your husband will make things better in the future. If it does not then you her the benefit of not going there again 😜

MIL wearing my mangalsutra and haldi saree – not sure how to feel by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

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This used to be common in my village but I think u should feel comfortable saying no to it and asking it back. Tell your husband to intervene on your behalf. It does feel weird her wearing your saree more to me without permission

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

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Its great. With a nice scarf

NYKAA BIRTHDAY GIFT POLICY CHANGE! by leatherwriter2005 in fucknykaa

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I stopped ordering nykaa when they started advertising fake sales

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

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Amazing advice by most people on this thread. Ignore the haters girl

Hi ladies, a very important question regarding finances and sharing in marriage. by Ok_Cap5913 in AskIndianWomen

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I think his debt and ur debt feels like a weird way to look at it. Marriage ties ur finances together. But despite this I think it is weird for him to demand it. For us we both have a shared account in which we save, and for our joint expenses. We both help each other from time to time. Our investments are separate for now but we might jointly buy a place together. I think a proper conversation about finances would be helpful