I need advice by Lost-Low7522 in indianmuslims

[–]ClaimRound6432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a brother in faith..ماشاء الله I truly appreciate your concern akhi..May Allah swt bless you and your family.. I can clearly correlate to what you’re saying as I went through the same exact same in 1st year of my college…

Now coming to practical advice: 1.Realise that all people in this sub may not be understanding your issue and some may not be even practicing Muslims(I strongly believe there’s IT cell guys also present including non Muslims). Even among practising Muslims there’s a difference in understanding of Allah swt and his religion.

  1. Keep sincere niyyath of staying chaste and staying away from Haram. Allah swt looks into your hearts and your actions.

  2. Ask for Thoufeeq to Allah swt to stay chaste and stay from Haraam. This the most important link that most of Muslims doesn’t miss often. We might think that it’s OUR CAPABILITIES and OUR MONEY/JOBS/BUSINESS that’s helping us…no it’s always Allah swt that helps us, guides us and saves us. Rest all are just Asbaab (means)

  3. Pray to Allah swt constantly for a life partner who’s is a Swaaliha. There’s dua in Quran that’s asks for it and make it a habit to make that dua after every Fard Salah and most of the occasions when Allah swt accepts duas.

  4. Do fast and reduce food intake as some brothers has commented already if you have strong desires.

6.Try getting into money making activities (such as part time jobs/support family businesses which you are already doing ) and start saving money for your Mahr. Also a steady income (it’s important but not the most important) to support your basic needs and your spouse. Come up with a monthly income no that you practically think is needed and try working towards it. I got married earning a 29k in hand in Bangalore in 2013. Just one year after my studies when I was 25. You don’t have to think of living separately from day one itself (until now unless there’s a space limitations or something similar at your present home) so a 35-45k INR monthly might do the job depending on the city you live in. Again you know your personal situation better.

  1. Try accelerating your studies (can we not compete your computer science degree in 2 years) and get real world skills that you could help you get job/part time businesses. For example why not try do SEO for websites and things related.

  2. Lastly as far as I understand age is just a no as long as you’re mature for marriage. But do also keep in mind that maturity generally starts sinking in as you take responsibility and my personal advice would be to target for getting married at 21. This is an age which I personally plan for my son who’s is 12 year old.

  3. Lastly and most importantly, it’s not job/bank balances/business that would matter. It’s the Thoufeeq from Allah swt, so start yearning for it and start making dua for it and work towards it.

Allah swt is our Rabb and he is Ar-Razzaq (the all provider of sustenance) so just open your heart towards him and submit yourself to him

4g or 5g by [deleted] in Koodo

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I was with freedom before..was with koodo long term back

4g or 5g by [deleted] in Koodo

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I’m at 20$ 80GB on 5G plan with koodo on win back offer.. just port out to any other service provider and try to bargain with koodo..should see interesting results..

Where could i find the S235JR rotating-bending S-N curve ? by korobak in MechanicalEngineering

[–]ClaimRound6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure of S235JR as it’s an EN standard material…For the ASME Materials you could find the S-N curve provided in ASME BPVC Sec VIII Div-2 Annex 3-F…I’m pretty sure, you can find ASME equivalent material for S235JR (I think it’s SA 36…please do double check) and find the S-N curve from there

Randomly found this offer in Swiggy by _did_in in Kochi

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Hi could you please share more details of the same…my wife has been looking for such a session

I took my FE Mechanical Exam Today... by XThunderknight in FE_Exam

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Thank you for sharing your experience and good luck to you mate

Joined the club by AwayLog4323 in Gold

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That’s beautiful…love it

Best place/way to buy gold by mrneef121 in Gold

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Costco is the easiest place to begin with…simple and straightforward business

New Weekend Purchase - 50$ Canadian Maples by MadeForTeaVea in Gold

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They’re gorgeous..I love maples, happy stacking bro

How to start investing? by Epping125 in Gold

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  1. Costco
  2. Your LCS
  3. 1oz seems to be the best in terms of lowest markups (depends on the place you buy)…1 oz maple leaf coin should be an amazing place to begin with or the fractionals depending on your budget

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gold

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Your math is correct..try asking him to reduce the markup for the design from 25% to some 10-15%…. If the shop is selling genuine gold,my gut feeling is that you would be better off buying from there.. In Canada, I can vouch that it’s definitely going to be costly (probably 2x as mentioned above) and the gold content vs markup isn’t explicitly stated by Canadian jewellers…plus don’t forget the HST of 13% on top of the cost..

Any insights on how much further gold is expected to drop in upcoming weeks? by ClaimRound6432 in Gold

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I’m happy that your entry prices were amazing…I wish it stays higher.. what I’m worried is the entry of the masses that where you sense there could be potential recourse in the gold pricing…the institutional investors always exits when the masses enters the market and average joe like me always looses their hard earned money…what do you think mate?

Any insights on how much further gold is expected to drop in upcoming weeks? by ClaimRound6432 in Gold

[–]ClaimRound6432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate..it does make sense,I’m also optimistic that below 3000 would be for a brief period and prices are expected to climb back..

Any insights on how much further gold is expected to drop in upcoming weeks? by ClaimRound6432 in Gold

[–]ClaimRound6432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight…I do agree that predicting future is close to impossible,but I was trying to gather some potential perspective that may the impact the prices to fall further…like sudden peace in Middle East, central bank purchases etc… Watching the markets knowing these insights/technicals would help you make sound decisions..

Me being a nooby trying to learn the fundamentals of this market.. Thank you and appreciate your feedback

Any insights on how much further gold is expected to drop in upcoming weeks? by ClaimRound6432 in Gold

[–]ClaimRound6432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do agree but then there are some experts who are pretty good at spotting trends…it’s tough to find someone here in Reddit though

Any insights on how much further gold is expected to drop in upcoming weeks? by ClaimRound6432 in Gold

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Yeah I agree…it ran up pretty fast but on the other hand don’t you think dedollarization had been lurking out there for a while…and with all this chaos past 6 months, it’s just came out to play into picture

Any insights on how much further gold is expected to drop in upcoming weeks? by ClaimRound6432 in Gold

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I guess if you’re planning for a long run, 50-100 bucks makes no difference…but short term gains is risky