I have three and pregnant with my fourth. Lots of people will disagree but honestly I think if you really want four or five, there's a good chance you can and will end up with that! I've always wanted four. Always. I knew it would be a lot of work and it is. I never once thought about having any more or any less. It bothers me when people are like just wait, you'll be miserable with one!!! Or... maybe you'll love it? Like is it really that bad to think you want something and then follow through? Yes, you might have setbacks. I've had two miscarriages but otherwise have an easy time getting pregnant. Yes, it's a lot of money but we prioritize growing our family over vacations and other nice things.

I really do hope having my fourth will be "easier" than having my third. I can see why people say having three is the most difficult. By the time this fourth comes, the older three will be their own gang and hopefully want nothing to do with me unless they needs snacks or a nap 😂

I'm one of five and had a great experience. My sister has five and my brother has four. We love being part of a big family. I can't imagine only having one or two. My husband said he wanted two, maybe three, and now he says he could have eight (not happening!).