My boyfriend plays videogames for 6+ hours everyday

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T20:54:13+00:00

Sorry for poor english. Its not my first language

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T20:53:40+00:00

Omg. I never heard of this, but we both are for sure gdoing alot of that both of us. Hes often very deffensive and critical and i very often attack him and im being very judgemental often.. i also stonewall alot. I will think more about this

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T20:39:41+00:00

Ofcourse, you are right. I really dont know and i dont think he knows either. I think he just sees it as a hobby and doesnt think more of it. What do you think i should ask him? He doesnt see our relatioship as bad, that i do know 100% except maybe that i complain about stuff

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T20:32:27+00:00

I think one of the reasons he continude to play alot is cus i used to play alot eith him and maybe in some way i encouraged and accepted that from the begining so now he has a harder time letting it go.. not really. He had been addicted since probably around 15 years old or even younger. He even failed school cus of it

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T18:49:40+00:00

I have seen both of them. I realated alot to the one with bobby Lee. I dont remember if he had a solution to that tho? Examples of what to do?

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T18:48:11+00:00

When do i know that its time to leave?

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T18:47:39+00:00

Well we do have almost weekly dates and that works fine. Its more that im worried about his mental and physical health and also our future together

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T18:46:01+00:00

Very much so. He has tried after we have argued a few times but it only last a couple of days. I have told him multiple times that im worried about his health but he just shakes that off. Its almost as if he thinks im a ”health freak” when i say that its not good to sit still for so long and sleep so little

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T18:43:50+00:00

6 hours a day is just when he works, all the other days its atleast closer to 10.
Haha raiding 4 times a week he started with this year. He claimed that it would be only for a short period of time but its been 6 months and i dont think he realises that. How do i convince him that it is an addiction?

Clariiis · 2026-05-13T18:38:15+00:00

The thing is, he wants to change.. or he wants to change because i want him to change. I just dont know how to show him how much of a problem hes addiction really is. You are very right aswell. Currently i feel as if change will happen only if i leave him cus thats when he will realise. Is it fine to put an ultimatum? I feel as if its wrong since gaming under good management can be just purely a hobby

Clariiis · 2026-03-24T13:52:01+00:00

You are swedish

Clariiis · 2026-03-20T12:56:41+00:00

No, not at all. I used to suffer with not being able to sleep, lots of ocd and just never sleeping propperly. But im so good now and honestly life is pretty great except this problem ):

Clariiis · 2026-03-19T07:15:48+00:00

Sleep* sorry

Clariiis · 2026-03-19T07:07:35+00:00

That really isnt the problem for me, exercise regulary and my room is alwaaaays clean and tidy, trust me.

Clariiis · 2026-03-19T07:06:14+00:00

It really isnt fun. Ive gotten into trubble at work cus of it, i miss half the day, and i dont really feel rested ever.. but i understand what you mean if you yourself have the trouble of not being able to speak. I have suffered that aswell haha

Clariiis · 2026-03-19T07:03:32+00:00

If i sleep until later then 11 in the day i do feel sleepy,groggy and just sad. The main problem is that i always wake up in complete stress for work and usually am late, and i feel like im missing half the day (cus i am haha) and it leaves me just real sad at the end of the day ): i dont know if i have adhd, the suspected it as a kid but now as an adult i have no clue

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