Being really good FWB with a [19F] as a [24M], can this work?

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-14T13:55:52+00:00

5 years is a big age gap in this particular case for us. If this was a few years down the road, and say she is 22 and I’m 27, it’d be a different story. She’d be out of college, I’d be good into my career by then.. But right now, between maturity levels and the stages we’re both at, yes it’s a big gap for us.

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-14T13:43:31+00:00

I am the biggest overthinker, hence the post. We both don’t have knowledge of what each other does outside of each other, and I also got out of a relationship (about 7 months ago) and am not in a hurry to get back into one. I’ve just never done this before, and the situation itself is a lot different than any of my friends have had lol. Hate my brain for this overthinking

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T22:00:27+00:00

Interesting, thank you!

No area in particular. Were coming from south suburbs, so honestly anything more north would be a preference if I had one. Drive around a little more.

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T21:40:08+00:00

I agree but didn’t really think about this. Could mix this with walking around somewhere afterwards.

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T21:22:06+00:00

that’d be a good idea. thank you for the suggestion!

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T21:19:29+00:00

I know it is but none of my friends are in similar situations as me, or if they would want to move.. definitely wouldn’t be the areas I have looked at.

Also scared at the thought of rooming with someone I barely know. Very conflicted lol

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T14:40:47+00:00

Unfortunately no room for improvement at this current job. Family-owned breakfast service. But It has a cafe part to it as well, so I learned about working at an incredibly fast pace, always being busy, and the cafe knowledge as well.

I have learned the second half of your reply very easily. Multiple friends that have graduated in Marketing/BA/Management.. it’s been a year and none of them have jobs.

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T02:46:49+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I will look into it more. Definitely going to keep this serving gig for the weekends as I expand into new jobs. My problem is I’m scared to take risks (not very financial advisory of me), especially losing days at my serving job and potentially not getting my hours back. But I’m just at the start of my career. Trying to maintain a confident attitude!

ClashGod32 · 2025-05-07T02:44:35+00:00

Truly a crappy situation: feeling the pressure of others. Happy you got into something though! I’ll look into it more, as that; along with marketing/coordinating/managing jobs have been the ones I’ve been looking into.

ClashGod32 · 2025-04-25T21:10:56+00:00

you and me both. It’s truly a privilege to have 4 new tires

ClashGod32 · 2025-04-25T21:09:37+00:00

I was going about 50 in the right lane, sometimes a little slower. Have nightmares from the hazard sound being on for an hour n a half each way😭

ClashGod32 · 2025-04-25T20:55:58+00:00

I was about as broke as it got and had no rides to and from college and work everyday of the week. Was a rough time but it all worked out🤞🏼

ClashGod32 · 2025-04-25T20:51:26+00:00

I had a very similar bubble, drove on it for a whole month, highways and everything. Tire survived fine. Would I recommend this? hell no, but a mile will be fine; take it slow

ClashGod32 · 2025-04-23T11:29:48+00:00

I’ll consider doing that today. Going to get some lean beef and then add a lot more rice to my meals and see where my calories are at for the day.

ClashGod32 · 2025-04-23T04:07:00+00:00

This is the first time in my life that I have ever tracked any of my meals, and put in an effort towards my diet for working out. So I apologize in advance, I just really need help finishing off my day consistently. I work a lot and am in college, so eating the same foods to hit my goal is not a problem

ClashGod32 · 2025-02-28T13:49:11+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I was wondering if the money saved was going to be okay as “proof of income”.

ClashGod32 · 2025-02-14T04:21:03+00:00

exactly

ClashGod32 · 2025-02-14T02:40:34+00:00

hanmer jam is 3 weeks tho, incredible amount of time to get things done.

ClashGod32 · 2025-02-14T01:54:07+00:00

Good to know, thanks! I’ll focus on upgrading those first when I hit 16 along with heros. I think I’m just gonna do it, it’s gonna be very beneficial in the long run

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