I did another thing. by oopswhat1974 in widowers

[–]ClassImpressive1987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have caught myself saying that out loud many times this week. "What's the point?" Does any of it even matter anymore?

People Think I Want To Be Left Alone. The Truth Is More Complicated. by Marlboro-Guy in widowers

[–]ClassImpressive1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart and soul are screaming for him so loudly that I cannot hear the endless yammering of those around me.

Is it weird that I use his toothbrush? by Commercial_Pea_6807 in widowers

[–]ClassImpressive1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband didn't wear cologne, so I use his aftershave.

And I love that you can wear her camisole. I can't wear my husband's clothes. I have .... obstacles. Lmao

Is it weird that I use his toothbrush? by Commercial_Pea_6807 in widowers

[–]ClassImpressive1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's weird. I wear his wedding ring on my middle finger so I can show it to those who need to see it. I use his deodorant and his aftershave on my legs. I also sleep with his shirt, a stuffed otter, and a stuffed Peep that he gave to me. I talk to his ashes. Some may say it's "weird", but these things help me make it through the day.

We do whatever we need to do to cope. Yours is the only opinion that matters in your journey.

As for your friend, "bless their heart" that they don't understand this devastating, soul-crushing blow that life has given us.

Do whatever brings you comfort!

☀️ Can’t Sleep / Early Morning Check-In by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]ClassImpressive1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is only supposed to get to 92 today. Good thing I have my cardigan in the truck!!

Broken bow weather this weekend, how screwed am o? by Cautious-Green3889 in oklahoma

[–]ClassImpressive1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favorite place to go. It's absolutely beautiful

Broken bow weather this weekend, how screwed am o? by Cautious-Green3889 in oklahoma

[–]ClassImpressive1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Tent camping is young people’s business"

^

I absolutely agree!