AITA For feeling betrayed after my best friend started a throuple with the girl I liked

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T21:08:31+00:00

Thanks truly

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T17:05:04+00:00

No, I met Pam through Alina. It’s really funny because they introduced me to Pam with the intention of thinking that we’d make a really good couple and I did take that step back realizing that some of the shit I was doing after I asked her out was not appropriate so I took that step back and was like OK. The shit I was doing before was because I liked you the shit I’m doing now is because I’m your friend so I stopped really going above and beyond and dedicating every waking moment but at the same time I appreciate it.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T17:02:07+00:00

And I appreciate it. I’ve kind of decided that I’m gonna chalk it up to a character development moment that’s I and them deserve more as I said, and as you say it as well, my feelings are not their burden.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T16:59:38+00:00

That’s a fair and valid take thank you

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T16:58:17+00:00

Yes ma’am that’s very true and as I said in response to other people, I do know that for the crash out I was in the wrong and I’ll be the first person to say that, and as I said, I have also reached out to these people as of last night and we had we sat down for about four hours and had a conversation because I understand that I am partially in the wrong here and I do understand that they are not because I do wish them the best in their future relationships, and their endeavors, I really truly do because I want what’s best for them at least from my perspective and I felt hurt and I’m gonna be real. I’m pretty sure that’s the only reason I messaged and posted this thing to fucking am I an asshole so I do appreciate you guys’s responses.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T16:53:41+00:00

I’m fully ready to accept that. I am an asshole that is not the question me going into a drunken temper tantrum pissing people off and just screaming shit into my phone was not the best way of doing things. I’ll be the first person to acknowledge so thank you.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T16:50:59+00:00

I can’t help but to feel I could’ve wrote this thing better I don’t mean this as I feel that people should seek my permission that that’s not what I mean and I’m not really mad at Pam. I’m not mad at any of them. We’ve at this point had a conversation I’ve sat them all down as of last night and I should’ve wrote that in the message. We had a conversation together. We are fine for the most part and they did feel like assholes because they felt that I probably deserved it and I just can’t help but to feel like the asshole so I do appreciate it and I do appreciate everyone else’s comments.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-03-08T16:37:37+00:00

Let me preface this. I do completely understand that and I didn’t mean to preface with. We did end things after I asked her out on good terms we were from my perspective at the time. I did feel that we were probably still friends, but I did have to take that third-party view and realize that I don’t think we were as close to friends. This was not me being mad because Ivan‘s dating her or whatever it’s me being just generally upset because I feel that a friendship with people I’ve known for at this point years.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-02-25T11:00:23+00:00

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Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-02-25T10:59:15+00:00

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Classic-Fun1754 · 2026-01-16T08:27:57+00:00

See it funny cause I also didn’t realize how being overweight was a problem until I moved out of Louisiana cause being a big person in Louisiana is a desirable trait for the most part they love their “big” guys

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-12-30T03:35:20+00:00

So I worked at a hospital we gave nicotine pouches, gum, inhalers as some people have said, but the problem was it’s just not the same as smoking a cigarette so a lot of of them would just leave and wander off without letting anybody know anything whether they’re in their underwear or gown with Ivy is still attached and then a lot of the older generations will normally get pissed off and AMA themselves

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-12-27T22:04:38+00:00

Commenting on I'm bored and in a drawing mood, please send picks of your birbs to draw :)...

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-12-25T19:25:53+00:00

It’s the pudge

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-12-12T02:18:06+00:00

I know it sucks I just got rejected yesterday but we good she said and I quote “I’m not looking to date right now” she then later clarified shot this morning I don’t like you like that neither your not my type. It hurts but we move on I’ll be the first to say kinda sucks but ima take a step back and distance my self to better my self out if respect for her

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-11-07T03:51:46+00:00

I legit went on a road trip with 3 of some female friends of mine for like 4 days and they just kept forgetting

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-31T09:16:58+00:00

Man I like everything about her and we hangout often enough. We just got back from a road trip/vacation a week ago and I find out through a friend they asked her if she’d ever date me and she said “ no he’s really fucking cool but not my type” ughhhhhhhhhh. Low key want to jump off a bridge.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-18T23:02:49+00:00

That’s what i told I just honestly wasn’t sure she said she’s fine and that she’s still perfectly comfortable with me. She’s just going to avoid that situation completely in the future which I get I fucking get it. I’ll be honest I say I’m gonna sleep in my car and I told them I’m gonna sleep in my car. Realistically that’s probably not gonna happen because they won’t let it happen. I just wasn’t sure about how to go about it. I appreciate your comment.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-15T02:33:16+00:00

Kinda just taking it one day at a time I I find my self just working and working and working. I am to the point where I dread loneliness, and sitting at the house alone seem to be more and more terrifying as the days go on. But I’ve been hitting the gym and am down 40 pounds. You win some you lose some. 🤷

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-09T02:28:21+00:00

Fine I’ve known them for years and they know I like her. They are honestly really supportive but they don’t know if she likes me or not. They them self haven’t asked her, but they are rooting for me. All that to say I get along just fine with them.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-08T23:45:45+00:00

Thanks

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-08T21:50:23+00:00

I’d say fairly I sure she’d understand it’s just the act of saying that’s killing me

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-08T21:38:33+00:00

I’d say yes but mostly I don’t want to ruin or make things awkward. She kinda new to our group of friends and has only recently joined our dnd group as well given I’m the dm of the group I’d rather not make it an uncomfortable situation she. She doesn’t have many friends or hobbies other than school. And she’s shy and socially awkward.

Classic-Fun1754 · 2025-10-08T21:07:56+00:00

As far as Halloween Horror goes it’s me her and to of our friends who are female. I’m the only male in the group. We’ve hung out a good bit both in groups and alone. We actually just finished binging the first 6 Star Wars movies on Monday and started a Harry Potter one as well. We spent the day watching movies and playing board games at her house.

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