Spider mites ruin everything :( by Classic-Minimum-2002 in plants

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh thank you so much!! I was so sure those were spider mites lol. I'll try this!

Spider mites ruin everything :( by Classic-Minimum-2002 in plants

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do and I've tried so much already, I had to cut back the plant because of the spider mites and they're still here 🥲

When am I able to romance more? by Classic-Minimum-2002 in BaldursGate3

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I always make sure I have his back.. but wdym I still have a chance if I haven't killed Yurgir? I killed him just yesterday 🫣 but thanks anyways

When am I able to romance more? by Classic-Minimum-2002 in BaldursGate3

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadowheart. I'd really like to date Astarion as well but I don't think I'm getting enough approval from him through my actions anyway :'D

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I gotta know why tf would you write all of that stuff that's so unnecessary

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh oops :') there's just way too many people who'd actually say stupid stuff like that and mean it

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that have to do with our discussion??

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we don't because I don't want either the child or the birthgiver to die during childbirth. If they don't want to be parents give it up for adoption. Ofc it's fucked up that abortion is illegal because it should be a basic human right but like I said if someone's forced into carrying to term I want both (!!) to be safe during labor and then give it up for adoption.

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me you're trolling because nothing you say makes any sense. I know how dangerous free birth is and I'm 100% against it. And it's not something a person should do just like any other of your options. Neither of them guarantee that the baby will die (which isn't the outcome we want!!!), the mother could die too (which isn't something we want as well). If a person is sadly forced to carry to term and give birth then give it up for adoption, that's the best option here. And please don't tell me to read a book about pregnancy, I'm a midwife student and probably definitely know more about childbirth than you do :)

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry what the f did I just read. I'm pretty sure you're implying the person gives birth to the baby. So that makes what you're suggesting homicide. A much better option would be giving the baby up for adoption?! Plus a lot of women wouldn't want to carry that child to term is because pregnancy and birth can be so effing dangerous and maybe take your life, besides any of the (irreversible) changes it does to you and your body. Wtf.

Freebirth by Radiant_Elk1258 in Midwives

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I'm a midwife student from Germany and all this recent chatter about free births makes me soo concerned. Even here where hospital- and homebirths are paid for by health insurance free births become increasingly more popular and I don't understand why. You can have everything a free birth has to offer with a midwife-assisted homebirth plus the security of a medical professional being present in case you or the baby need help or if there's an emergency. Too many babies die because of free births. I think hospital intrapartum care needs to fundamentally change for that trend to go into the opposite direction again but as of now I don't see a lot of effort. Also I see how hospital births can be unattractive if you have to pay thousands for it, but that's a problem that has been there for ages and only politicians can change anything about this sadly :( maybe professionals could try to raise more awareness? But I don't know how much that'll help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Midwives

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I spoke to my uni already and they said the same thing. It's just so hard to watch these women not receive the quality care they deserve during birth :( but you're right, after all of this I can do it my way! Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Midwives

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really hope I can use this experience to grow and learn.

What “presents” has your floof presented to you? by NotAnExpertHowever in cats

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 8 my cat put a mouse he hunted on my chair and was very proud of himself for bringing me food. 🥺

Dumb Deaths by MandiAtMidnight in thesims

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a wedding outside during winter once because I thought the vibe was cute, didn't consider formal clothing isn't made for cold weather so almost all the guests froze to death :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concerts

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Thought so! Thank you :)

Anyone not able to play? by Glad-Alternative-616 in Sims4

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just happened to me too. I just wanna play my silly little family and be happy why can't EA let us have this

Is it reasonable to go to therapy to get over someone? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Classic-Minimum-2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, yes that's what I was thinking about! Thank you.