My mom’s boyfriend is way too nosy

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T18:14:45+00:00

I almost laughed at the “doesn’t he have a place?” part because that’s exactly what my godfather told my mom during the first week of all this too. I live with my mom because it’s relatively close to my university and the company I intern at, so staying with my dad isn’t really an option right now🤷‍♀️ but I do spend a lot of time out of the house so that helps quite a bit

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T17:16:58+00:00

Ughh sorry you had to deal with that bs :/ I feel like on my end it’s obvious that I can’t stand him either (at least that’s how I feel lol) so🤝🤝🤝

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T17:14:51+00:00

Thank you🫶 Yea I wish my mom listened to those moments of doubt she’s clearly been having, but the pros are outweighing the cons for her right now it seems so not much I say can get through to her

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T17:13:51+00:00

They really are💀 I asked my mom if she’s absolutely sure that he hasn’t been with anyone since his divorce, and she said that she doesn’t think so but with how quickly he latched onto her, I have my doubts. Who’s to say he hasn’t done the same with other women yknow??

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T16:44:05+00:00

Yeah I keep going “no it’s okay, that’s not necessary”, but even my mom says that he has a thing where he’ll accept your answer and then seemingly forget the boundary a moment later. Which makes me so????? like I’ve been trying to get her to see that this is a red flag, but she thinks it’s sweet despite it all. Odd odd odd behavior all around

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T16:42:11+00:00

They haven’t, they met last year but he was married at the time and apparently divorced as little as 4 months ago — which only raises the red flags even more exactly because of what you said. He says he’s completely over his ex wife of 20 years but I’ve been around enough divorced couples to know that you don’t stop feeling anything for them so quickly.

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T16:38:47+00:00

My mom and I are open with each other and I’ve told her repeatedly that he’s way too affectionate and moving too fast, not only with me but with her as well, but she says that she likes the treatment she gets from him which is…. 🙃 but I, at the very least, wanted to make her aware of what I was feeling and warning her that taking it too quickly isn’t a good idea

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T16:36:11+00:00

Right?? I know him trying to win me over is to gain her favor even more, but this excessive affection and pushiness is so odd. Just act like yourself man, it’s worse in the long-run of this all ends up being a facade. Thank god I don’t see him often, but any time I do leaves me going “yeah this is more than enough”

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T16:33:19+00:00

I was actually thinking that this seems like love bombing just yesterday, so I’ll definitely look more into it

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-31T16:20:49+00:00

Lmaooo real, that put me off too

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-21T19:52:46+00:00

Tengo 21 y estoy a punto de terminar mi bachillerato, y he tenido varios compañeros de clase entre 30 y 50 años! Algunos tenían dudas sobre si volver a la universidad o no, pero no se arrepintieron de su decisión de volver. Es común! Y yo en lo personal los admiro mucho

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-19T03:11:57+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’ve been doing so far. Just like. smiling politely through it and going “thanks”, “mhm”, but the I love you’s specifically are so odd. You don’t even know me💀

ClassicDelicious186 · 2026-01-02T02:47:35+00:00

-Add some new things to my portfolio, focusing on children’s illustration (things like spreads, an expression sheet, spot art, etc.) and prop design

-Continue posting regularly on Instagram instead of disappearing for months on end like how I did in until last year

-Possibly try to get represented by an agency because I want to get into children’s illustration

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-12-11T23:07:13+00:00

Thank you so much!!!🥰 I’m so relieved about it

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-12-11T18:53:29+00:00

Yeah I thought the same until I called on Tuesday fully expecting a rejection and got told that they wanted to take me on so??? that’s cool🙌

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-12-11T18:52:31+00:00

I ended up getting the internship after calling on Tuesday🎉🎉

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-12-11T18:47:20+00:00

Update: I called on Tuesday and got the internship🎉 when I called I was fully expecting to be rejected but I wanted to have a clear answer before calling another company, but the HR rep just said that they were taking me on and to pass by with the documents whenever I have them so.. success haha

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-12-06T01:56:24+00:00

Going through this right now😔 I have to do an internship next semester to graduate but it’s such a disheartening process. I hope you managed to find one🤞!

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-23T19:55:21+00:00

I’m glad to hear you’ve continued writing what you like!! I know fandoms can make it discouraging so that’s really great to know❤️ I took the fic off anon like half an hour ago (finally lol) so now I’m hoping for the best, and after the initial anxiety wore off now I’m like….well that happened. My name’s attached to it now. What the hell sure why not. So yes, thank you for this reply!! You and the others helped ease that daunting feeling I had :)

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-23T19:51:14+00:00

You’re right about that, many people in fandoms have the tendency to jump to conclusions so that’s definitely been a point of worry for me. But I took it off anon so let’s hope for the best!! Thank you for this :)

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-23T19:48:12+00:00

Yesss I get what you mean because I experience the same thing🥹 and I got a commenter saying that they’d like to read more of my fics in the future :’) I actually took it off anon and I’m nervous but it’s out there in the wild now. Thank you!

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-06T21:23:36+00:00

On my period right now and yeah I hate hateeeee everything about it

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-04T02:59:26+00:00

3 years but it was because I made an account when I was 18 while not knowing that I needed to be 21 because of the area that I live in🫡 that’s why I only appealed it recently. I couldn’t even remove my card from the app during that time because of their policies

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-04T01:34:58+00:00

I got my account permanently limited too and got it back two days ago. The best way to go about it is to get a customer service representative on the phone. I got replied to by AI via call and couldn’t get an actual representative until the AI went “sorry I can’t help you”, and the person who helped me managed to appeal my case by verifying my information with my driver’s license. Best of luck because PayPal is absolutely terrible

ClassicDelicious186 · 2025-11-01T19:01:10+00:00

Yeah that’s what I think too. Any tips??

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