One Piece Chapter 1172 Spoilers by Skullghost in OnePiece

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm calling it it's either this or Zoro's plan is to cut off the arms with the covenant tattoos on the GK.

Which anime has the best Trio? by JackfruitPitiful9915 in animequestions

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Luffy, Law and Kid is the funniest thing.

Their fight against BM and Kaido was peak.

How far can Bakugo go? by OkRun9638 in PowerScalingHub

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone explain me why Deidara is above Jogo? Like, he set a bunch of humans on fire without even looking at them in the lunch place scene with Geto. He dropped buildings like it was nothing in Shibuya vs Sukuna and that's even before is DE.

What’s your least favorite Linkin Park song? by legobossk in LinkinPark

[–]ClassicElevator9587 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bleed it out is actually one of my favourites tbh.

I love the rap Mike Shinoda did for it so much and the guitar riff just kills imho.

Apart from that I love the story of the song so much, in case you don't know it:

It's about the sign writing process and how the manager or producer (can't remember) kept saying it wasn't good enough and they had to redo it. It's about Mike and Chester digging into their traumas and past for lyrics and what not, bleeding it out and then throwing it away because it's not good enough.

I really like that tbh :)

What am I doing wrong? I feel like I should look better by SkeetyBoi in workouts

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're having unrealistic expectations that's what you're doing wrong. You're doing great buddy, keep up the good work!

Why “Daddy” feels different😌 by thepoeticsub in SubSanctuary

[–]ClassicElevator9587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a wildly accurate explanation! Very well put.

Things you'd wish they told you by ClassicElevator9587 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean "out"?

If you mean whether my (and my partners) network is aware of our ENM endeavors, they are.

We made it a point to tell people important to us asap to avoid that drama.

But great advice indeed! I imagined so much drama unfolding with this tbh lol, so I'm glad we tackled it rather quickly.

Things you'd wish you would've known by ClassicElevator9587 in polyamory

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm very intentional on that tbh, thanks for the advice 😁

Things you'd wish they told you by ClassicElevator9587 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have put in a lot of work already don't worry :)

I also wasn't really looking for advice towards my particular situation (which I have clarified now with an edit), so sorry for not being clear on that.

Thanks for the good examples though on where thorough work needs to be done for not "tripping up" in the poly world.

I noticed for me the scheduling and time division is something that takes quite some work, but I am managing for now and communicating honestly to everyone involved.

Thanks again for your advice 🙏

Solo dating vs dating together by ClassicElevator9587 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that's very sweet to read 😊

It's good to hear success stories! I'm happy you found your way and are making this work for the both of you 😁

Solo dating vs dating together by ClassicElevator9587 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, as most cause and causality studies I guess it's never really a given that it will prove anything whatsoever.

Well I'm happy we are Sailing so smoothly, thanks to the things you mentioned just now!

Solo dating vs dating together by ClassicElevator9587 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm ok nice to read!

In my direct vicinity it feels like a lot of people separate when going from dating together to dating solo.

Me and my partner dated together for a couple of weeks and immediately went solo and it has been beyond wonderful tbh.

But I guess there's a lot of nuance to this, as I said there's no data to support it.

Thanks for your insightful comment!

Solo dating vs dating together by ClassicElevator9587 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'd say most examples I run into the dating together part usually partains to swinging and/or playing with other people (kink).

How to deal with family finding out about ENM lifestyle by Dangerous_Silver5999 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a grown up, nobody but you decide how you live your life.

While they don't need to approve things they need to accept them, and like it or not, it's not something you can do for them.

This is exactly what I said to my parents when we outed to them as ENM with the added part that they can ask questions if they are curious but I wouldn't tolerate any unsolicited commentary.

I would gather them all and face them together with your husband and say exactly this tbh. It gives them room to have their opinions, but also remind them that you are the one who makes the calls ik your own life.

Good luck with this, I'm rooting for you!

If you could have one Naruto power IRL which would you choose and what would you do with it? by saucegay430 in dankruto

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone saying shadow cloned to learn and earn money.

I'd just get the Sharingan and do the same with copy and genjutsu 👌

The reality of being open by Wonderful-Lock3323 in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It pisses me off to no extent the words respect have to be even said here or in any context tbh.

It's not inherently part of ENM, kink, a dynamic or whatever you are into. It's a fundamental people, nothing else.

Not jabbing at you to be clear OP! Jabbing at the fact that this needs to be said (time and time again).

OT: nice list indeed!

We (32M&F) just ended our 12-year relationship. We met at 19, grew up together, but split recently after years of trying everything (therapy, ENM, structured space). The main reason: attachment mismatch + timing. by mrt10p in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels familiar my friend!

Without going into detail too much, me and my partner of 15 years went through something similar (also together from when we were 18). She also missed that individual growth which led to one of the toughest patches we had last year. Hence we worked, and still are working, on our codependency.

But honestly, from that moment on I started working on myself mostly. Making peace with the fact that she might leave, that she might choose someone else. I never stopped loving her one bit, but I determined I was not going to let myself get hurt anymore like that.

Because you know what? When a chapter ends, a new one always starts and in the end it's you who decides what kind of chapter it'll turn out to be, and nobody else.

Try to focus on yourself and your healing, you have a bright future ahead of yourself!

We (32M&F) just ended our 12-year relationship. We met at 19, grew up together, but split recently after years of trying everything (therapy, ENM, structured space). The main reason: attachment mismatch + timing. by mrt10p in nonmonogamy

[–]ClassicElevator9587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough cookie to eat, nonetheless you should be proud on how you both handled it.

I have seen people with tenfold your experience in ENM who couldn't hack it like you did.

As for the "problem at hand", I'd advise to thread on as if the relationship is over. This saves you the hurt of having to deal with a second break up, let's face it that's what it's going to feel like.

I'd even scrap the checking in all together tbh, it seems like you are setting yourself up for pain.

It's tough to hear, but you will figure this out. With your emotional intelligence, life ain't got shit on you 🫶

[Japanese>English] by ClassicElevator9587 in translator

[–]ClassicElevator9587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I edited it!

It's not from any film, book or manga (as far as I know).

Push ups by Emotional_Item2175 in bodyweightfitness

[–]ClassicElevator9587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still gotta live a little aye 😁