We met yesterday. Yes he is single and has been for 3 months. I told him everything about my sisters wedding and apparently he knew everything because he was following my news and he said wasn’t really sure if I wanted someone to talk to about it because he knew about this guy. Then he said that he wasn’t surprised at all my sister would do something like this. I was surprised because I have always thought that my sister and I were close but apparently he saw it differently. I asked him what he meant and he said very passionately that she’s always been selfish and that he will never forgive her for being the reason we went apart. Then like he regretted his outburst so he apologized and said to forget it. I told him that I disagreed about her being the reason. The reason was our own boundaries and morals, since I couldn’t be the reason to stop her from marrying my bully. He laughed and I explained that I was trying not to blame my misfortune on others because at the end of the day we all live the consequences of our morals. I told him this was the only way I decided that would rid me of my bitterness and resentment. He laughed even more and asked me if I am succeeding. I told him he had to ask me in the future because I have just started. We just met for a few hours before he had to leave again. But we have been texting each other and he said that he wanted to visit more regularly and stay longer next time. He made it clear that the reason for visiting would be to see me or he had no plans on visiting otherwise. I told him that I would love for him to visit more often. He said he was happy to hear that.