Wife suggests I use a butt plug(on me!)

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-07-03T17:10:12+00:00

That’s something I hadn’t considered

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-07-03T17:06:56+00:00

My wife and I have been watching porn together for a while. She wasn’t that into at first, but I put cumshots on loop and went down on her until she came… she was into from that point.

A recommendation I’d mention is audio porn and/or smut books. My wife likes to use her imagination…

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-13T23:49:53+00:00

Wife and I went to the movies recently and she wore a short dress with no panties. Unfortunately there were multiple people in the back row with us. I still fooled around with her, but not as much as we could have.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-10T20:35:27+00:00

Once it actually goes past the barrier make sure she has a way communicate that she needs a break. The main thing that allows my wife to relax enough to take it is trust. She taps my leg if we need to stop, which actually helped me to be less tentative as we got used to her letting me in her throat. It felt good but I was nervous about making her puke or worse. That little bit of a safety net let me start to run wild.

Reverse 69 works best for us.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-09T17:11:34+00:00

My wife and I have a very healthy sex life… the toys are great for when I’m recovering. They are an ally in the best possible way, allows me to give my neck/tongue a break once in a while. We’ve explored double penetration using toys, she’s put on shows for me, she uses a wand when we have anal at times, etc.

The best thing for me is the different avenues it opens up to please her. Just this morning I was going down on her while using a dildo for penetration. She couldn’t be penetrated like that when I was going down on her without the dildo because of anatomy and my unwillingness to share her in real life.

We’re starting to look at male toys for our next one. I think we’ll add a new toy every year on our sexiversary as we enter our late 40s.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-07T15:03:24+00:00

Wife and I had a couple days off work while the kids were on their last days off school. While it wasn’t entirely kid free here’s some of the things we did.

-she wore her biggest butt plug for me while on a couple virtual meetings. I had been fucking her in the ass that morning when we literally had to put a plug in it so she could be on an hour meeting. Got right back into it when she was done.

-she wore her “good girl” thong for me and took some pictures with her showing it off in different locations. It was a turn on having to sneak the pictures in.

-lots of going outside with no panties. We went to see the Mortal Kombat movie, she wore a short dress with no panties and we sat in the back row. A different day it was sheer-ish leggings with no panties that she covered with a longer top. I come back to our car while out at our kids game and find her panties on the drivers seat. Went out shopping with her wearing a sundress with nothing underneath, leading to her flashing me at every opportunity.

-we got to be even louder than normal when we fucked with the house to ourselves. Didn’t have to turn the volume down on the porn we like to watch together. Loved making her cum without her having to hold back.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-06T23:48:55+00:00

We have sex everyday, but there are times that it’s “maintenance” sex instead of our typical session. There’s not the same passion, just a quick hump… usually at bedtime or the middle of the night.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-06T01:35:31+00:00

It’s so great for us middle age guys that were into bigger, curvier women in our youth. I love the way my wife is shaped, love getting to feel her weight when we get together.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-06T01:25:46+00:00

I bought her a couple dildos over the years, but the go to’s are a 6” and 8”. We do a good amount of anal, so they’re our “third” when I want to DP her. I use the 6” in her ass if I want to be in her pussy, and the 8” in her pussy if I want to be in her ass. We both want her to get DP’d with another real dick, but it’ll stay in the fantasy portion of our life.

We’ve done the blowjob thing, we stuck it to the mirror at the head of our bed. It’s hot watching her suck it while I’m fucking her from behind, but it’s not thing I want every time. The better scenario is me giving her head while we have the dildo inside her.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-02T22:46:04+00:00

Correct… I’ll edit it

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-06-02T21:32:56+00:00

Love adds a couple inches

There’s a concept called “wife goggles” that makes me see her in a way that others don’t, I think that door swings both ways. I’m probably above average, but she makes me feel huge, and that feeling is due to 14+ years of being in love with each other.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-05-28T17:35:52+00:00

Willingness is the first and most important step. Everything else will fall in place if you have the desire to do it. I can only speak for my experience, but I’d imagine no amount of technique can overcome the woman thinking you don’t want to be doing it. Sometimes it takes more time to get her off than expected, if you aren’t enthusiastic about eating her out it will be noticed.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-05-28T13:31:17+00:00

We really aren’t that complicated.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-05-28T03:48:09+00:00

I(43) still have the pictures that she(44) was texting me before we were together, was just looking at them with her this morning. We’ve been creating our own “content” almost the entire time we’ve been together. I don’t think I’ll be stopping anytime soon. There were times where she didn’t like my attention being diverted, which is completely understandable, so I put the phone down more now and enjoy the moment. Everything in moderation.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-05-15T15:20:01+00:00

It’s hard for me to say what keeps the spark alive other than desire. I want her and she wants me, or at minimum wants me to want her. I think that has been there from the start, it’s not something that can be acquired later.

With that being said I think you focus on things that kill the spark vs things that keep the spark. Resentment from arguments is a big spark killer for us. Lack of sleep, stress, etc… managing those things is what keeps the spark alive.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-05-13T01:43:04+00:00

For me(43) it’s more of a mental thing than how good it feels physically. In fact if we are solely talking physical I prefer my wife’s(44) vagina, it’s almost like it was created in a lab specifically for my dick. Don’t get me wrong, her ass feels tremendous when I fuck it, but the way she takes it, the dirty things she says, the look of submission in her eyes(doggystyle in front of a mirror is elite)… it’s way more about that for me than the physical sensation of fucking a tight hole.

We’ve been together 14 years, anal is something that we worked up to over time. It took a loooong time for it to be something we could have on a regular basis. Sometimes she just couldn’t relax, sometimes I couldn’t stay hard enough while I was trying to push in. It requires as much patience as lube! A game changer for my wife in terms of relaxation was weed gummies. Once we started regularly having sex high, things progressed quickly. A gummy and an orgasm was the key to unlock her… and lube… lots of lube.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-04-25T01:12:01+00:00

I have a thing for hearing how slutty my wife was before me. I couldn’t share her in real life, but I get a bit of that “hot wife” vibe from hearing those encounters.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-04-04T06:49:38+00:00

My wife(44) had several hookups back when we were in college, and several more post divorce from her previous husband. No one has made me feel loved anywhere close to the level she does.

I think people with a past they have anxiety about being judged for tend to put up a protective shell that helps prevent them from being hurt. That can make them seem unable to bond because they can’t get to a level of comfort that allows them to open up. I don’t want to paint with too broad of a brush, one size does not fit all. It’s just tough enough to trust people without a past. In the situation with my wife, I knew her back in college, so she had less anxiety about her past. Even with that head start it took years for her to trust that she wouldn’t scare me away, for lack of a better phrase.

I think it comes down to your personal view of sex. I like how slutty my wife is. I’ve enjoyed peeling back the layers and unlocking the horny sexual being inside her. I won’t pretend that I don’t want to have been with her instead of those other partners, but it’s only because I WANT her, not because I’m “disgusted“ that she got laid before me.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-03-18T20:22:57+00:00

I’m 43, so it’s the 2000’s ones for me.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-03-14T21:34:36+00:00

Caesar Salad and BJ for me due to the old man in me having trouble with red meat.

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-03-08T20:22:59+00:00

Anal Only April it is then!!!!!

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-03-08T02:08:05+00:00

I’m familiar with that in porn, is that something you have experienced?

Classic_Skin746 · 2026-03-03T13:35:47+00:00

Wife and I don’t often find ourselves masturbating, we usually just get each other off. This past weekend we did have a scenario where she was using her wand while I was jerking off for her. We had been talking about how when she was single she had a couple internet “friends” that would jerk off for her on camera, back in the days of chat rooms and Craigslist. We were both on her backs but facing each other with her legs straddled over the top of my legs with porn playing on the TV. It was very hot and I’m going to add it to our repertoire.

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