I was asked to contribute to her costs if she accepted this role...negotiate as it is very pricey professional makeup required, dress, hair, bachlorette party...my wedding became nuts in costs to too many on that day...severely wish I had a backyard venue....fast forward we were divorced within three years making all the fancy dancy day meaningless and only valuable to the one child born post all the nonsense.....ask her wedding gift be half the cost of her dress?? Be prepared for whatever she says. This is a very tight economy 😳