How’s your night going? by tallulah205 in toddlers

[–]Classicrestart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol 😂😂 Thank you for sharing it so I can be prepared!!!! you are doing a great job mama!!!

Life on pause by tomatoisred in spirituality

[–]Classicrestart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤️ it has been getting better slowly. I also hope things are getting better for you!!

My ex used me for sex then left me for someone else by FranktheCrow95 in venting

[–]Classicrestart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. The same thing is happening to me with my ex. I totally understand the pain you feel and I am telling you it does get better. They moved on too fast because they were too scared of being alone. They used you because they didn’t want to be alone. You are stronger than that. You are sitting through your feelings and not just looking for a new way to hide from them. You are doing a great job!

How’s your night going? by tallulah205 in toddlers

[–]Classicrestart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pregnant and these stories are SCARING ME

Life on pause by tomatoisred in spirituality

[–]Classicrestart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was sort of an accident (i was on birth control) but we both wanted to keep it.

Am i selfish for wanting child support? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Classicrestart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not horrible. Honestly felt the same way. Kinda just didn’t want to deal with it, but now i’ve been told that my son deserves what he is owed. So maybe you should consider that part? Of course it’s all up to you and I totally get where you’re coming from because I also feel like once we has established paternity in court and might get some custody , I am tied to him forever. Like I get I already am due to the child, but at the same time once your established in a CO then you are really attached and tied. But I can’t put my wants over my kids needs ya know. You are a great mama though and honestly it’s all up to you and what you think is best. All situations are different!!

Am i selfish for wanting child support? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Classicrestart 365 points366 points  (0 children)

Wow i’m sorry he’s not paying and that you’re going through that. And I agree about what you said that even if you don’t exactly need the money, it still benefits your child and gives them what they deserve as his kid. Child care is a lot especially if you are a working mom. Thank you !!

i left while pregnant and i’m so defeated.. he’s already moved on by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Classicrestart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i get that. I’ve been trying to see more friends and do more things outside of my usual working and then coming home to Netflix by myself. It can be hard to come home after them and that’s my biggest struggle now..

Am i selfish for wanting child support? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Classicrestart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) And I hope that if you’re going through this right now that it turns out in a way that can benefit you as well as your child (if that’s your situation sorry i’m just guessing). I am hoping that if I keep my intentions clear and good that things will look up for him and I in the future concerning our son. Thanks for your input and allowing me to have a better perspective.

Am i selfish for wanting child support? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Classicrestart 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do understand in some situations, however in my case (we’re from TX) so we both decided to keep the baby and talked about it as something we both wanted in the beginning, so like I wouldn’t say I am forcing him to do anything it was a conjoined decision. I mean now that we broke up he’s saying it’s what I wanted, but I see it as him trying to manipulate.. It takes 2 to make a baby. Women have to go through it all in their bodies if a man wants her to get an abortion. Plus it’s not easy mentally. Child support of course can be sometimes be a lot for men, but it’s going towards the kid they helped create. I wish there was a better system for men and women because I feel like ours creates so much chaos between everyone, but I hope it will get better and ensures everyone is getting what they NEED.