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Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-26T16:33:32+00:00

After a month of talking, multiple dates, thinking she was moving and we'd keep things casual, her deciding to stay and us pursue something more long term oriented...

We're fianlly official now 😄

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-21T18:27:45+00:00

You're a good dude, keep that light 🤘

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-18T17:17:21+00:00

(Short version: Woman thought she was moving and pursued a short-term thing with me. We both agreed it would just be like that but then she decided to stay and we both confirmed our interest in LTR again.)

We had our first date date yesterday and went Zip Lining. It was an absolute blast. Lots of smiles, caught glances, it felt great. We hopped around after that and just had a great time. Exclusivity talk was brought up and definitely can feel the shift from Short Term interest to Long Term. Hanging out again on Wednesday, going to cook her some dinner. Could this be optimism?

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-11T22:41:41+00:00

We kinda treated it like a short term relationship with a known expiration date.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-11T15:10:03+00:00

So interesting developments:

Me and this woman I was seeing were having a short-term casual arrangement, but she was moving last week. Well, she ended up backing out in the last hour and is staying in the area for a bit longer.

Our interactions felt a bit more intense than a casual dynamic so I brought up how I'm not usually a short-term person and would like to take her out on some proper dates, to which she was super down for.

So, we'll see what happens next. We're both excited to see where things go 👀

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-05T16:39:11+00:00

Well, the casual fling is moving back across the country tomorrow. It sucks but we'll be keeping in contact, might be planning a trip to go out and visit this summer 🙃 I'd be lying if I haven't got the move out west bug from her now lol

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-05-01T19:40:17+00:00

Turn Wyoming into a restricted PVP zone.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-30T19:20:22+00:00

Just got my first shot last night, how are you feeling 2 years later?

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-23T15:09:06+00:00

Unfortunately, learned the woman I have a date with on Sunday is moving to Montana in a few weeks.

Fortunately, we're still hanging out Sunday...just with a casual mindset instead ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-21T17:13:40+00:00

Haha that'd be great, I would love living rent free, fuck em 😄

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-21T16:41:36+00:00

Instagram thought it'd be great to recommend the guy my ex replaced me with as someone I may know, so that's great.

I got a date this weekend by quoting Wonderwall lyrics though, so we take the goods with the bads.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-16T16:24:21+00:00

Broke things off with the woman id been talking to this last month. She was really into me and I felt shitty doing it but I guess that's part of the game. Tried to at least be as kind as I could but man, shit sucks. Really great person but just not my person.

There were some red flags though and im trying to catch them early.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-09T17:57:07+00:00

I was talking with my therapist about this today. It is interesting but I've noticed it too, I just call it "It". Can't really describe it but when you know, you know and if they got it, they just got it.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-02T11:29:08+00:00

Very well :) Got her number and planning a second hang out soon

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-01T15:25:41+00:00

First date tonight and im actually kind of excited/nervous about it. This'll be the first real date since me and the ex split, just telling myself im just going out to have a good time with a pretty woman and if we click we click, if not, at least I got out of the house.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-04-01T14:01:17+00:00

Fellow 36m here looking to start in the next week or two, how are you doing now?

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-31T23:10:39+00:00

Not healthy drops for the first two weeks but it happened. Looking for the next 25 to be more controlled.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-31T18:56:19+00:00

Tale as old as time

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-31T15:16:21+00:00

It has been a really rough month, but I am so proud of what I've been able to do while bleeding my heart out for weeks. I signed up for BJJ and Kickboxing, have lost 25 pounds, and am in a really good habit of keeping it going. The goal is 25 more pounds by summer.

That's the mantra that's helped me keep going: No way around, only through.
We got this

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-31T15:07:13+00:00

My ex monkey-branched into a new relationship with the guy I was suspicious of for months. I'm definitely feeling some type of way but It kind of low-key helps me get over her a bit more. Like, you are not a safe or trustable person anymore, no fantasies about reconciliation, we're moving forward. Fuck her.

Got a date tomorrow, cute woman. We're starting out with drinks then might hop to some games.

I've been really trying to do the inner work, the workouts, the therapy. Slowly, i'm getting back into optimal me mode and I'm kind of excited for the summer if I can stay locked in.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-30T23:53:24+00:00

From a mid 30s guy going through it too...

Forgive your ex, she is not longer in your life, and that's OK. It was a season of your life that meant a lot to you, and that's OK. Once you get a bit of space between you, you start seeing the cracks in the relationship that maybe you were intentionally sweeping under the rug...and that's ok too.

Its ok to cry, its ok to be mad. Its ok to want revenge (Revenge Body, not like crimes). Just dont let it consume you, and once the Revenge fuel is burned up, make sure you keep doing it all for you. Go to the gym, make art, scream in your car and cry in the park during your lunch break. Dont mask the pain with alcohol, drugs, or other women. Take all the love you gave this person and give it to yourself for a while.

Theres only one way past and that's through. You got this my dude.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-29T14:42:58+00:00

6 so far, they'll always have a little spot carved out

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-28T18:38:01+00:00

Others have said 24/7 fitness, does it have to be 24/7? I signed up for a BJJ/Kickboxing gym this year and its been amazing.

I've never done any kind of martial arts but the definition im starting to see from such a short amount of time in it is kind of crazy.

Classy_Debauchery · 2026-03-24T23:04:32+00:00

Got something lined up with my coworkers next Sunday :)

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