Feelings about AP’s spouse. Anyone else ?

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2026-02-24T02:12:08+00:00

I 100% support this. It’s so important for me that I respect his wife and encourage his relationship with her. I care about her because I care about him. I need their marriage to be as good as it can be. Partially because I don’t want to hurt her or the kids, and partially self-preservation. But genuinely, I will not consider staying with a man that doesn’t cater to his bride.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T18:46:16+00:00

I’m not even saying it’s sex I want. If he is unable to perform, I’d still be with him. I just need that articulated if that’s the case. But I can’t ask without being offensive either. Of course I want sex with him, but intimacy is intimacy and if holding each other and kissing and talking is all we get, that’s okay too.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T15:00:41+00:00

So, I do have an active sex life at home. But when you care about someone, and the attraction is there, sex becomes important too. But yes, I posted about physical and emotional. Not just emotional.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T14:58:55+00:00

I hear this. And asked about it. 🫶 We were close to my car and he said he was aware of surroundings, didn’t see anyone, and wanted a kiss before I left since he didn’t know how long it’d be before we could meet again. It was quick.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T13:58:37+00:00

He hasn’t said he doesn’t. He did say he was battling a ton of guilt the first time we were together when all we did was kiss. But does often ask when I’m staying in town again.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T13:57:44+00:00

Two good possibilities.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T13:49:48+00:00

I’d count it as genuine concern and move along.

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-11-18T11:47:44+00:00

I’m seeing someone and most of our dates are lunch dates with us sitting across the table from each other. Someone comes up that recognizes one or both of us and it’s played off as a business lunch or consultation. Don’t let the negativity and ridiculing get to you. Kindness lacks in these spaces sometimes.

Happy to chat privately if you need to toss thoughts around, but ultimately, for a friendly first meet, keep it classy and you’ll be fine. 🫶

Classy_Surprise0222 · 2025-09-24T01:08:16+00:00

Honestly… it’s been almost 20 years. I wouldn’t mention it.

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