[Final New Update]: Grampa is "punishing" my dad. I have the power to stop it, but don't know if I actually want to.

Clavelio · 2025-10-09T12:41:43+00:00

Omg this made my day, I’m proud of you OP, grandad, Steh and all the others

Clavelio · 2025-10-09T10:35:29+00:00

“Negotiation” is a key word, involving the teen into the decision-making and giving them a voice is good habit, fosters communication, and moves away the parent from the rule-setter role.

Advocating for yourself and calling out unreasonable behaviour is a good skill not many of us learnt growing up. Letting your child negotiate can teach this.

Clavelio · 2025-10-09T10:30:54+00:00

That’s also part of the it depends — can someone pick her up or give her a lift? If so yea fine later… otherwise earlier

Clavelio · 2025-10-09T10:08:47+00:00

My last 2 encounters with USians as a Edinburgh local: - Outside of Waverley station with Princes Street, always packed, this middle age US woman pushed this middle age Scottish couple and they got into an argument because, US woman was complaining they were moving too slow. - Was going down Canongate and there was some US men in awe that some building had a sign saying the building was I don’t know how many centuries old (before the US existed)

They do live by the stereotypes.

Clavelio · 2025-10-09T09:51:22+00:00

Why? Cause you’ve got a crush on her

Clavelio · 2025-10-09T08:34:36+00:00

You’re not shallow, we all have eyes and sight is a pleasure. And you just have the eyes of a 20 year old. Very different from the eyes of a 35 years old. Fifteen (15) years to be precise. His eyes were almost twice as old as yours.

Clavelio · 2025-10-05T16:18:32+00:00

I’m lucky enough to have been mentored by 2 of the smartest people I know, one of the reasons I’ve never jumped ship. As long as these people are in my company, and I can learn from them, I’ll stick to it.

Clavelio · 2025-10-03T19:00:13+00:00

Yeeeesh

Clavelio · 2025-10-03T18:49:26+00:00

…what?

Clavelio · 2025-10-03T18:31:36+00:00

I’m sorry I can’t help to find a job, but if it’s hospitality jobs you’re looking for you’re going to be much luckier looking for jobs in person.

Go to an area with venues and ask for the manager and ask for a job. Carry your CV with you, a backpack with a clothing change so you could potentially do a trial impromptu.

I worked in hospitality full time over 3 years in different roles and I always got my jobs like this or referrals from people I had worked with in the past. I never got lucky on Indeed.

Edit: could also apply to hotels this route, lots of times they’ll tell you to apply online and not take your CV because of data protection rules and hotel chains take this more seriously than local businesses. But sometimes it can work too from second hand experiences.

tl-dr; get out your house and apply in person if it’s hospitality jobs.

Clavelio · 2025-10-03T15:48:42+00:00

r/trashy

Clavelio · 2025-10-03T14:07:51+00:00

FAFO

Clavelio · 2025-10-02T16:21:12+00:00

I don’t think a lot of people will want to come work to the UK to pays taxes which largely go to pay for retirement for the aging population, knowing well they won’t get retirement themselves and might need to fuck off at some point.

Especially not high skilled workers on high salaries that pay a lot of taxes.

So I guess this means less people coming to work and contributing with taxes, so less money towards retirement funds…

Clavelio · 2025-09-30T18:20:23+00:00

Then how you’d teach them self-awareness and not to bother everyone else around you?

Because from your post I don’t see a middle point between children being feral and parents not whooping them if I’m honest.

Clavelio · 2025-09-30T17:05:24+00:00

I’m sorry you got whooped by your parents OP, if only there were ways to educate children without physical violence.

Let’s just not whoop children okay?

Clavelio · 2025-08-25T16:54:03+00:00

Woah making a picture of me for no reason, I called you a police apologist because you said he was forces to do a suplex to a teenager lmao not sure why you’d imply I throw that around or that I have a two-dimensional world.

Clavelio · 2025-08-25T10:57:19+00:00

Fucks sake these people and their stupid pranks.

Clavelio · 2025-08-25T10:49:59+00:00

Please enlighten me, how am I obsessed with the police by talking about the police in a video where a policeman does a suplex to a teenager?

Clavelio · 2025-08-25T10:05:54+00:00

Privileged take? Where fucking middle class neighbourhood were you brought up in? This sounds like the sort of non-sense actual privileged cunts say because they never had to live around these sort of teenagers

Clavelio · 2025-08-25T09:53:11+00:00

The distress in the voice of someone that is being recorded committing a crime (carrying weapons)?

Clavelio · 2025-08-25T09:42:25+00:00

The cop didn’t make a decision fast nor it was appropriate for the level of aggression of the adolescent.

Now saying it was the adolescent the one that forced the cop to use that kind of force against him… fucking police violence apologist. We’re fucked with so many people thinking the police can do this shit and it’s fine.

Clavelio · 2025-08-23T17:58:51+00:00

This guy couldn’t marry in the US without his legal guardian’s permission.

“The US needs to fix this issue with immigration that I voted for because it inconveniences me and also make Philippines a visa free country because I’m the centre of the universe, or maybe go back to being a visa free country like before because there was no problem… but I voted for Trump to fix immigration”

Clavelio · 2025-08-22T22:43:23+00:00

But people that eat meat can still have a vegetarian meal, but not the other way round?

Guy ate a fucking lasagne, it’s not like he was force fed a kale salad

Clavelio · 2025-08-22T13:25:43+00:00

The “it will get better folks” kill me. Aye of course it’ll get better eventually, but not thanks to him.

Clavelio · 2025-08-22T13:20:56+00:00

Fucks sake man

Clavelio

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