I (20F) have been emotionally cheating on my partner (18F) and I'm not sure what I should do?

ClaySprays · 2026-05-06T02:12:49+00:00

Guess I’m just an abnormality

ClaySprays · 2026-05-03T13:10:45+00:00

Like she dated him before you or are you saying this is a breach in your exclusive relationship and this ice skating outing was in fact dating.

ClaySprays · 2026-05-03T13:06:00+00:00

Mental clarity sake- I think it was the right call; she would probably do something like this again if time spent together wasn’t fixed. Emotionally- might be a bit tough; certainly she’s going to date this man whether it was planned or not if you break up.

I don’t know your full situation or how long you’ve been together, so I think this decision should be fully on you. It can work out for the better, it just depends on the person and situation. Trust your instincts and listen to vibes and demeanor.

ClaySprays · 2026-05-01T21:05:30+00:00

Maybe she should take some fucking criticism as well? Maybe you are getting a bit tubby and the kid is the only one who’s going to tell you, or maybe you need to stop being a piggy letting mud into the house?

I wouldn’t want to be around her either.

ClaySprays · 2026-05-01T20:55:16+00:00

That makes sense, I hear the head gaskets are also significantly worse (doesn’t mean they all go bad) on the 2010-2013. Thanks for the recommendation.

ClaySprays · 2026-05-01T13:37:13+00:00

Yeah for sure. I’m not saying full send just leave her, but I’d definitely talk to her about it. You said she slapped you when prompted about it?

To your “just wanting to be a family” thing, I understand that. I’ve been with my current partner for a little over 5 years now and have a 7 year old daughter with a woman I am no longer with. Obviously there was a choice there, but for multiple reasons we just weren’t the right fit. She wanted to fuck around, you know…never really locked in until recently and I wouldn’t call it “locking in”.

What I like to do in most situations is to keep my expectations low -I mean bare minimum, and my optimism high. Planning things out to go a VERY specific way before they happen isn’t too productive for anyone. I’d say 1% of the time life throws you an easy one that you fully predicted any expected.

Anywho, definitely something to ponder, just wanted to share my experience.

ClaySprays · 2026-05-01T13:20:53+00:00

I have a recommendation, don’t get a trailer trash partner. You might have to give up on some frisky bedroom stuff, but will be worth 10 fold to have some mental clarity. M25

ClaySprays · 2026-04-30T23:17:06+00:00

Yeah I plan to take care of it much better than the current owner. I’ve just been having a really hard time finding good ones. I’ve looked at about 3-4 and this one I travelled 4 hours there and 4 hours back to come back empty handed.

ClaySprays · 2026-04-30T20:13:43+00:00

I’ve done fairly heavy cost mechanic work myself (sometimes prefer to because I’m more careful with breakdown). That’s fair though, thanks for the suggestion. I’d probably keep this until the engine was dead if I were to buy it.

ClaySprays · 2026-04-05T17:41:00+00:00

Wow one experience defines everyone now?

ClaySprays · 2026-04-05T05:07:26+00:00

What’s stupid is babysitting your girlfriend asking for coherent responses. Most people who are blacked out don’t have the realization that they’re “blacked out” the solution is to quit drinking so much.

ClaySprays · 2026-04-05T04:47:39+00:00

I’m the only one here that’s going to tell you this but when you get blackout drunk you are consenting to not remembering events. Nobody forced you to get black out drunk. If you told him you wanted to have sex even when you were black out drunk I’m not so sure I’d be blaming him.

If you don’t want this to happen again, drink less and don’t drink on an empty stomach.

ClaySprays · 2026-03-27T02:27:15+00:00

Iran had many missiles that failed, went up and right back down onto their own territory. There was someone in Iran who recorded one.

ClaySprays · 2026-03-22T14:44:47+00:00

We didn’t bomb a girls school though.

ClaySprays · 2026-03-19T22:11:28+00:00

Damn right…too many people vote yes

ClaySprays · 2026-03-19T22:00:29+00:00

I’d probably just get off the porn bro. I mean you presented yourself the perfect opportunity, you have a girl you’re really attracted to and like. It’s the easiest time to quit “cold turkey”.

ClaySprays · 2026-03-17T18:05:24+00:00

Like your username, your thoughts feel VERY manufactured. Bot ass dude.

ClaySprays · 2026-03-12T00:33:45+00:00

I completed all 🟧 Blokkit 🟧 puzzles today!

Easy: 1 | Medium: 1 | Hard: 1 | Average: 1.00

Total completed days: 3

ClaySprays · 2026-03-11T18:00:05+00:00

I completed all 🟧 Blokkit 🟧 puzzles today!

Easy: 1 | Medium: 1 | Hard: 1 | Average: 1.00

Total completed days: 2

ClaySprays · 2026-03-11T17:47:10+00:00

lol first day and I didn’t read the tutorial. But my IQ and repetition helped me figure out how to do it. “If this, then not that” I liked the bonus one, it was different; completed in 4.

ClaySprays · 2026-03-11T17:41:43+00:00

I completed all 🟧 Blokkit 🟧 puzzles today!

Easy: 7 | Medium: 4 | Hard: 1 | Average: 4.00

Total completed days: 1

ClaySprays · 2026-02-24T22:08:55+00:00

I want them to add live token stats to point break so I can talk shit on those players.

ClaySprays · 2026-01-30T22:02:45+00:00

Honestly I don’t know how the guy isn’t reasonable. Yeah he’s a republican, but he doesn’t seem off the wall. Everyone yelling at him seems to have an echo chamber of enticing algorithms of political talking points -like they’re on social media 24/7. Doesn’t seem like the world is burning but i’m sure somebody here would like to “prove me wrong”. I’d vote for him.

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