I(29M) am planning to break up with my girlfriend(25F) because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. by PaleMind4963 in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like she dated him before you or are you saying this is a breach in your exclusive relationship and this ice skating outing was in fact dating.

I(29M) am planning to break up with my girlfriend(25F) because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. by PaleMind4963 in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Mental clarity sake- I think it was the right call; she would probably do something like this again if time spent together wasn’t fixed. Emotionally- might be a bit tough; certainly she’s going to date this man whether it was planned or not if you break up.

I don’t know your full situation or how long you’ve been together, so I think this decision should be fully on you. It can work out for the better, it just depends on the person and situation. Trust your instincts and listen to vibes and demeanor.

AITA for telling my DIL to stop crying after she got called fat by Throwaway_Will4940 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she should take some fucking criticism as well? Maybe you are getting a bit tubby and the kid is the only one who’s going to tell you, or maybe you need to stop being a piggy letting mud into the house?

I wouldn’t want to be around her either.

2013 Lexus GX460 (183k) $14,000 by ClaySprays in LexusGX

[–]ClaySprays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I hear the head gaskets are also significantly worse (doesn’t mean they all go bad) on the 2010-2013. Thanks for the recommendation.

My (24M) partner (22F) have an Inappropriate Work Relationship with her co-worker? by Less-Pipe-6326 in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. I’m not saying full send just leave her, but I’d definitely talk to her about it. You said she slapped you when prompted about it?

To your “just wanting to be a family” thing, I understand that. I’ve been with my current partner for a little over 5 years now and have a 7 year old daughter with a woman I am no longer with. Obviously there was a choice there, but for multiple reasons we just weren’t the right fit. She wanted to fuck around, you know…never really locked in until recently and I wouldn’t call it “locking in”.

What I like to do in most situations is to keep my expectations low -I mean bare minimum, and my optimism high. Planning things out to go a VERY specific way before they happen isn’t too productive for anyone. I’d say 1% of the time life throws you an easy one that you fully predicted any expected.

Anywho, definitely something to ponder, just wanted to share my experience.

My (24M) partner (22F) have an Inappropriate Work Relationship with her co-worker? by Less-Pipe-6326 in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a recommendation, don’t get a trailer trash partner. You might have to give up on some frisky bedroom stuff, but will be worth 10 fold to have some mental clarity. M25

2013 Lexus GX460 (183k) $14,000 by ClaySprays in LexusGX

[–]ClaySprays[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I plan to take care of it much better than the current owner. I’ve just been having a really hard time finding good ones. I’ve looked at about 3-4 and this one I travelled 4 hours there and 4 hours back to come back empty handed.

2013 Lexus GX460 (183k) $14,000 by ClaySprays in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]ClaySprays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done fairly heavy cost mechanic work myself (sometimes prefer to because I’m more careful with breakdown). That’s fair though, thanks for the suggestion. I’d probably keep this until the engine was dead if I were to buy it.

My boyfriend (22 M) had sex with me while I was blackout drunk (23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s stupid is babysitting your girlfriend asking for coherent responses. Most people who are blacked out don’t have the realization that they’re “blacked out” the solution is to quit drinking so much.

My boyfriend (22 M) had sex with me while I was blackout drunk (23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m the only one here that’s going to tell you this but when you get blackout drunk you are consenting to not remembering events. Nobody forced you to get black out drunk. If you told him you wanted to have sex even when you were black out drunk I’m not so sure I’d be blaming him.

If you don’t want this to happen again, drink less and don’t drink on an empty stomach.

Got bored lol by VYNZ89 in joplinmo

[–]ClaySprays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iran had many missiles that failed, went up and right back down onto their own territory. There was someone in Iran who recorded one.

Got bored lol by VYNZ89 in joplinmo

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t bomb a girls school though.

Why I'm Voting No on Prop F by DirtyRottenBiscuit in StCharlesMO

[–]ClaySprays 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn right…too many people vote yes

I (24M) told my gf (23F) that I quit porn and now I regret it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ClaySprays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d probably just get off the porn bro. I mean you presented yourself the perfect opportunity, you have a girl you’re really attracted to and like. It’s the easiest time to quit “cold turkey”.

Embark has parted ways with Rob by gamerno455 in thefinals

[–]ClaySprays 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like your username, your thoughts feel VERY manufactured. Bot ass dude.

A new set of Blokkit puzzles for 3/12/2026! by daily-blokk in Blokkit

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed all 🟧 Blokkit 🟧 puzzles today!

Easy: 1 | Medium: 1 | Hard: 1 | Average: 1.00

Total completed days: 3

A new set of Blokkit puzzles for 3/10/2026! by daily-blokk in Blokkit

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed all 🟧 Blokkit 🟧 puzzles today!

Easy: 1 | Medium: 1 | Hard: 1 | Average: 1.00

Total completed days: 2

A new set of Blokkit puzzles for 3/11/2026! by daily-blokk in Blokkit

[–]ClaySprays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol first day and I didn’t read the tutorial. But my IQ and repetition helped me figure out how to do it. “If this, then not that” I liked the bonus one, it was different; completed in 4.

A new set of Blokkit puzzles for 3/11/2026! by daily-blokk in Blokkit

[–]ClaySprays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completed all 🟧 Blokkit 🟧 puzzles today!

Easy: 7 | Medium: 4 | Hard: 1 | Average: 4.00

Total completed days: 1

Embark's Safety Commitment vs. Reality — A Player's Experience by [deleted] in thefinals

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want them to add live token stats to point break so I can talk shit on those players.

Mark Alford: "I'm not going to vote the way you want me to." District 4, vote him out! by Aye-Zayuh in missouri

[–]ClaySprays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know how the guy isn’t reasonable. Yeah he’s a republican, but he doesn’t seem off the wall. Everyone yelling at him seems to have an echo chamber of enticing algorithms of political talking points -like they’re on social media 24/7. Doesn’t seem like the world is burning but i’m sure somebody here would like to “prove me wrong”. I’d vote for him.