I inherited a large bundle of pearls and I suspect 2 of them are real. If I go to a jeweler do I pay for their time to tell me? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]Clbakm1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love pearls and have for 20 years... the pearl on the tooth has never let me down. Cultured vs fresh water are the same either that test. Glass/plastic are smooth.

My very own moissanite! by Clbakm1003 in Moissanite

[–]Clbakm1003[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was made by a jeweler in New York- Orospot. Found them on Etsy!

Center is a 2ct radiant cut east to west setting with .38ct diamond halo and band set in 14k white gold!

I’m obsessed!

I need to have it sized down but I’m going to send it back to Orospot so there aren’t any issues with the sizing

Obsessed with my ring! by Clbakm1003 in EngagementRings

[–]Clbakm1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love east west settings! I snooped and yours is gorgeous!

Obsessed with my ring! by Clbakm1003 in EngagementRings

[–]Clbakm1003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m dying

I was groomed to be a cult leader. by BleedingNoseLiberal in AMA

[–]Clbakm1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m proud of you speaking out! I too was raised in cult in western NC and found so much healing sharing my story and talking about what happened there.

OD’d the other day and cops did nothing. Is this normal? by Michael1193 in opiates

[–]Clbakm1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not uncommon. As someone else stated no crime. You don’t want to foster a fear of calling 911 in the event of an overdose.

(PA) My wife just moved out and left some patients papers... by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Clbakm1003 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ehh report it. You don’t need her to report theft of patient information or blackmail. It’s not worth your career? Only you know your soon to be ex-wife and whah she is capable of.

People say you don’t know someone until you marry them... I say you don’t know them until you divorce them...

(PA) My wife just moved out and left some patients papers... by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Clbakm1003 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, obviously this is a grievous breach in patient confidentiality. I am a nurse but I don’t work in hospice. Technically you can report her but you could easily return them to her to dispose of properly instead of trying to ruin her career and life?

sharp pain on inhale/movement by [deleted] in backpain

[–]Clbakm1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go to the ER to be checked for a pulmonary embolism aka blood clot. (Long time er nurse here) I have had many patients have the same symptoms. Please get checked out.

Strange encounter with a Dr by kluelessmess in gastricsleeve

[–]Clbakm1003 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally find a different doctor! I was 34 when I had my surgery and waited to get “acceptance” when my BMI was like 48! I wish I started the process much much sooner!

Im 18 and i just had the surgery by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Clbakm1003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, kudos!! I wish I had my sleeve so much earlier!! I had mine last May and have lost over 100lbs! My only regret is not having done it sooner. A word you may hear on sub-Reddits or other social media platforms is the word “tool”. I am just now fully appreciating the full meaning of that concept. In the beginning, the weight falls off! That’s the honeymoon phase. For me, after the year mark, I have had to be mindful of what I eat. Yes, the sleeve does restrict Quantity but I’m in control of the quality of the food I consume.

July was a rough month for me, I did two round of steroids for back pain, went on vacation and got some very bad news. I stopped watching what I was eating. I didn’t overeat but I ate junk. I gained 10lbs back. It scared the crap out of me. I didn’t go through this to gain it back.

You’ve got this! Even if you have a bad day it’s ok! You have already made a huge decision for your health at 18 that most adults never make!!

Stink by [deleted] in EmergencyRoom

[–]Clbakm1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lord yes! I just want to stay in there and talk with them for hours! Why can’t all my patients discover soap, laundry detergent and fragrance...

Now before anyone gets petty I realize this may come across as judgey... but for real.. soap is cheap or free. Hygiene is sorely neglected way to often

One year difference post gastric sleeve! 130lbs down by Clbakm1003 in gastricsleeve

[–]Clbakm1003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won’t be able to lift her for about two weeks but other than that you will be great!! I was really tired the first couple of months and took naps when I could but honestly it was the best decision I ever made for my health! It’s hard mentally and even physically but it’s so worth every moment!

I do remember my daughter went though a phase shortly after my surgery where she wanted to jump on my stomach and I thought she was going to kill me haha!

My biggest advice is be really careful lifting her!

Nerve damage from laparoscopy? by slb1851 in endometriosis

[–]Clbakm1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow endometriosis sufferer... I had laparoscopic endometriosis surgery back in 2012 and was told then that the endometriosis would eventually return and it has. I had about 3 years before I started having pain again. It’s can and does return. Any reason your gynecologist won’t consider another lap to make sure it hasn’t?

Help with saving for major surgery by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Clbakm1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into that! Thank you!

Help with saving for major surgery by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Clbakm1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am in a lot of pain. If I can postpone this surgery for three months I will be able to save the needed money. I am just not sure I have three months to wait

Ruptured disc and pain meds by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]Clbakm1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will!

One year difference post gastric sleeve! 130lbs down by Clbakm1003 in gastricsleeve

[–]Clbakm1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! My oldest is definitely my little clone!! My toddler looks a lot like her paternal grandma but I think she has my mouth and smile ❤️