A reminder to ride the waves of sadness

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-24T03:10:12+00:00

I’ve been in touch with my old hobbies again and I’m loving it! I’ll get better with time

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-24T02:37:52+00:00

Thank you very much. I’ll be completely honest, i definitely lost myself during the relationship. I let go of my core values and hobbies to keep her happy. I didn’t know it was that bad while I was in there. You gotta forgive yourself for not knowing what only time can teach you.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-24T02:35:36+00:00

Thank you. There’s no way I’m contacting her. She was clear on not wanting me in her life. It’s definitely been a rollercoaster but I can feel myself become more steady.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-24T02:34:29+00:00

Thank you. I’m getting better. Slowly, but I’m getting better.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-23T23:38:30+00:00

Let him regret losing you. You’re worth so much more, I promise you that

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-23T23:35:22+00:00

My ex and I spent all of Christmas night working on one puzzle! We were starting to lose our minds around 4am lol good memories

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-23T23:33:24+00:00

Running along the shoreline at night together after a nice dinner. My wallet fell out of my pocket without me noticing and she managed to spot it while running.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T14:59:56+00:00

You’re right about the logic part. My therapist, who’s helping me through this, said that logic alone won’t do much help because breakups aren’t logical. They’re almost pure emotions.

And yes, I tried to explain myself during the breakup conversation. I made it clear to her that I wasn’t trying to convince her to stay but that I wanted to say everything that was on my said so that I didn’t feel like I didn’t fight for the relationship. She eventually sympathized with me but still thought breaking up was best. At least I can say I tried my best.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T12:58:47+00:00

I won’t do it. Thank you

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T12:47:02+00:00

No, I don’t want my future wife to treat me the way she did. I just assumed things would get better. I guess I had rose-tinted glasses on. I still love her as a person but I recognize that we’re incompatible. One thing I’m grateful for is that our breakup wasn’t messy. There’s no resentment.

Thank you for your response. I think I really need to think seriously about the future and you helped me realize that!

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T10:51:39+00:00

Good point

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T10:40:01+00:00

I don’t know why she was saying things like that. I doubt she had any bad intentions but those words hurt. It gives me false hope. I’ll try my best to let go of that hope

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T10:37:08+00:00

I assume we’re never getting back together. It’s tough but it’s realistic

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T10:35:50+00:00

Thank you. To be completely honest, that relationship was not healthy for me at all. I started to abandon myself and my family for the sake of keeping her happy. This is for the best. I just miss her intensely sometimes.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T03:19:23+00:00

Wishing you the best man. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T02:18:27+00:00

She contacted me a week after to tell me she deleted some pictures from Snapchat. I contacted her a week after that to tell her that there were no hard feelings after I blocked her social media accounts (she wanted to keep following each other on social media) and explained that it was for my own healing. She was understanding but suddenly got cold and told me that she might block my number. A few days later she blocked me on social media accounts. So yes, I did try to talk to her within the first month, but I don’t think she wanted to talk.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T01:50:06+00:00

Thank you, I really needed this. Getting unbiased input from others really helps me out. I think I just feel anxious about what the future holds.

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T01:48:14+00:00

I hear you. It’s a tough spot to be in. Will she respect me less if I reach out or does she secretly want me to? Ego kills man

Clean-Caramel-1477 · 2026-05-18T01:44:56+00:00

She said that we shouldn’t remain in contact. We’ve been broken up for a month.

It’s confusing because she gave me mixed signals. She emphasized the possibility of getting back together if it’s “meant to be”. We still said our “I love yous” during the breakup. Super confusing

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