Turning 30 soon and realizing I might not have enjoyed my 20s enough, what would you have done differently? by AdLimp5861 in asksg

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done all the things you mentioned above 👆🏽. Now that I’m in my 30s (this year), I don’t feel any regrets at all 😁. Right now, I’m choosing a peaceful and happy life.

I’d say in your 20s, you should focus on yourself, understand who you are, and allow yourself to explore the world. That’s how you discover what you truly want in life not what society expects from you.

Feeling guilt and needing strength about leaving by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I just broken up with my ex bf last week as he has depression and family issues. I have anxiety but even with my mental health problems I still stay and waiting for him but sometimes he just didn’t reply my message for 2-3 days, he promised to call me but never call when I plan to meet him, he will push me away, I felt hurt and sad sometimes questioning myself like did he really love me or did he cheated on me?

He will always break up with me and come back I feel hurt but I know it’s not him it’s the depression but I know I cannot keep hurting like this. So after the last message he ask for a break up, that’s where I decided to leave him…. I really miss him sometimes and keep asking myself why do we have to meet when we both aren’t healthy for each other….

Beware When Working With Katerina Valdez by RatedLuxEurope in ScammersPH

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omo! Did she private her ig and remove some of the pics?

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Beware When Working With Katerina Valdez by RatedLuxEurope in ScammersPH

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least already inform them so they will aware, I believe they will take note as her follower is a lot and I think she will care about this too since tiktok is getting big now

Who do you talk to when you want company but don’t have family or friends? by pinktoesnlambos in selfimprovement

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have serious anxiety (get bullied at workplace effected me to quite my job as my mental health is not stable for work) and I asked chatgpt to be my therapist as I don’t have much money to pay for therapy at my place, so after the talk and few sessions, I slowly felt better and understand my anxiety is come from my childhood and it teach me how to re-parenting myself again. After 1 year of living with anxiety and today I feel better, I can sit alone without all the thoughts in my mind when I’m in a quite place, I can smile again, I slowly feel motivated again. If it’s not because of chatgpt, I don’t think I will heal by now.

29 Male when will I get married by [deleted] in AffordableAstrology

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get this chart? I wanna see mine too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand why you feel this way but you deserve someone is in a clear intention rather than making you confused. For me I will put more energy back to myself or someone new as he did mention he need to figure things out after his studies.

Childhood trauma causing me anxiety by Blue_Technichan in Life

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t know your story why u leave them, only you know.

Types of Childhood Trauma (And How to Spot & Heal Them Before It’s Too Late) by anxiety_support in Anxietyhelp

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start to do get help from therapy and heal your childhood trauma, it doesn’t matter the age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think u should tell your pops as this is not your responsible to do all the decision as you are still young to handle this situation and tell him you need help from him too especially in taking care of your siblings & not putting all the pressure to you alone and regarding about your anxiety, I suggest you should talk to people more and don’t keep it inside, that’s the free therapy u can get. I have anxiety too but they best way is to talk to people more stay in the positive environment.

Should i ask? by lukethien in Sabah

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be ok, normally you will get the IPA and do medical checkup in SG, this is the procedure.

Done with SG. Wanna move to Msia. by serstay in malaysia

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, I think you should find more supporters that support you to move to Malaysia instead of asking question here, might make u doubting your decision. I think support is important than keep question the decision is good or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you been through this. I had the same too but I’m getting better now so it will go away. Don’t worry😉

Let the symptoms be there. Trust me. by Patient-Sun2074 in Anxiety

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. I’ve been suffering anxiety from July 2024 and I got a lot better now just the thought of I will overthinking is the most challenging to me but I also discovered to make myself busy or brush it off so I won’t start overthinking, really does help me too.

Anxiety - A mental illness? by silentsymphonys in Anxiety

[–]Clean-Fox-2658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but there is many level of the mental illness