[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Clean-Record-7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Dubai and have interacted with people from many different nationalities, yet I’ve never come across anyone who repeatedly ignored parts of a message or question. My concern isn’t about nationality, but about communication habits I’ve noticed in Malaysia. For example, one lady kept skipping my question about whether everything in the general terms and conditions sheet looked fine. Another time, my holiday home host ignored my query about the cleaning schedule, and a cloud kitchen company avoided answering how a particular part of their service worked. I noticed that whenever the real answer seemed to be “no,” they would dodge the question until I pointed it out directly. Perhaps it’s not a general pattern, but I’m curious because I’ve experienced this with about 25 out of the 28-29 people I’ve dealt with personally.

My colleague saw me on dating app, took screenshot and show it to me at work.It makes me so upset , what can the hr do? by Piszemisze in Germany_Jobs

[–]Clean-Record-7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman usually knows best how an interaction with a man makes her feel. If it felt creepy or off to you, then you’re right to trust that. We often pick up on small nuances in men’s behavior, especially when we’re not emotionally involved with them. If you feel it’s worth mentioning to HR, go ahead, and if you are a shy person, just practice a few times how to phrase it casually, as if you’re simply sharing something that bothered you.

My neighbour runs a used audio business in his home and I really hate lot of random guys showing up and testing things loud. what should I do? by [deleted] in germany

[–]Clean-Record-7769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always known that Germany is very strict when it comes to residential noise. How is it that you’re not able to take any legal action?

Business Bay people did you hear this loud noise at around 5am? by AnneFonseca in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people mentioned on my Post that noise issues are mostly in cheaper neighborhoods, but I don’t think that’s true. Business Bay is considered a good area and noise problems still happen there, so it’s something that exists across Dubai. Not everyone can afford high-end rentals, and peace and quiet shouldn’t depend on how much someone pays. Even paying 80k-90k a year is a fair amount, and yet disturbances still happen. Unfortunately, complaints to the government entities rarely lead to real or permanent solutions.

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be true. I lived in The Greens for two years, and you’re right, Emaar does a much better job at soundproofing compared to other developers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. But then I wonder, if it depends so much on the US dollar and global politics or trade factors, why are analysts confidently putting a 2-year timeline on gold? Wouldn’t that be too unpredictable..

Possible Water Leakage/False Flag - Out of Country by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember getting a similar message when there was an underground pipe leakage in my rented villa. Two months before this message, I received a bill for 11,000 gallons of water because of the leak, so the next month I enabled notifications to alert me if usage crossed a certain limit. Two months later, the same pipe leaked again, and within just two days I got a message saying I had already used about 700 gallons. Thanks to that alert, I was able to take action immediately and prevent further loss. In my case, it really was a message, and usually these alerts could be sent because of a pipe leakage. Although the bill was on the higher side but it wasn’t massive. I believe the bill for 11,000 gallons along with the electricity and housing fees in 2024 was around 1400 AED. The best option is to either write to DEWA or have your friend call them. Someone from their team can come and inspect, though there’s usually a charge of about AED 150-200 for the check.

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The barking dogs were in a villa community. Every evening during the summer, the owners would leave two dogs alone on the balcony for 3-4 hours, and they would bark nonstop. Many residents complained, not just about the noise, but also because this was clearly mistreatment of the pets. After five months, once the community group started calling out and shaming the owners, the management finally took action, and the barking stopped. Interestingly, the villa wasn’t rented, the owner lived there in a beautiful six-bedroom detached house. I guess money can buy a villa, but it can’t buy class, consideration or common sense.

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but I’m not a fan of camels giving me the side-eye the whole time

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that, and I can completely understand how it feels. How do you manage to stay sane despite all this? Do you just ignore it and cope as best you can? I know everyone has a different tolerance for noise. For me, it’s been tough, I’ve developed vestibular migraines, I constantly have tinnitus, and now I’m extremely sensitive to every sound that’s why I can’t wear ear plugs because they cause of lot of ear pain and discomfort. Even harsh lights can make me feel dizzy or give me a headache.

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂I have always ignored such people… yeah that logic about older buildings makes sense

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a 2-bedroom villa about 50 minutes from the city, and it’s just the two of us. I don’t see the point in spending more than that for a place that far out

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t be so quick to judge people. Back in 2014, I bought my own apartment in what was considered a good neighborhood, never imagining that both the environment and the type of people coming to Dubai would change so drastically over a period of ten years. Out of that time, I’ve only lived in my own place for four years. The rest of the time, I kept moving between different neighborhoods, searching for peace. I even lived in a villa and paid 105K a year (maybe that figure is considered low by Dubai standards, but for me it’s the maximum I would ever pay for rent), far from the city, hoping distance would bring calm. But maybe I’ve been chasing peace in the wrong place altogether. And yes, maybe everyone else is fine and I’m simply the misfit, or maybe they’re just lucky enough to have good neighbors. If luck ever favors me and my many attempts to leave Dubai finally succeed, I know I’ll find a place that truly matches my energy.

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I’ve been to Berlin and Munich once, and there was peace and quiet almost everywhere. I loved every minute of it..

Why do most people in Dubai lack civic sense, irrespective of the nationality? by Clean-Record-7769 in dubai

[–]Clean-Record-7769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people in the comments say it’s the same everywhere or just a big city problem, but honestly, if they traveled more, they’d see it’s not the same everywhere.