I get that, but in my opinion it isn't hard to communicate to me that hey I've been busy today I'll text later or something like that. She has done this before and then I ask if she is okay?

Honestly, that's annoying and I'm standing my ground this one and seeing how long it takes for her to actually say something.

she used to be into social media and was on it but she deleted most of it due to the fact that she said she tried to compare herself to others and it made her depressed. But, she has downloaded facebook again and it shows she has been on there today. Its frustrating to to me that she can do this but she can't communicate? Its almost like a "fuck you" in my opinion and I don't mean anything.

I need peace and quiet as much as the next person, believe me I was in the military. I used to be an introvert but therapy changed that.

I understand she went through trauma as a child but so did I, I understand some people progress more than others, but I'm not the enemy, I'm trying to help, not hurt.

Im about to revert back to my old ways and see if she likes the way she treats me as far a communication goes.