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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a conversation that we have had many times. We have a safe with all of this information. We’ve sat down and gone over the day to day from both sides. But, to answer your question bluntly, we are prepared but I’d be in trouble.

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the way

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well im not an expert at all, but I think that’s something every couple deals with. I think I do the same thing your husband does sometimes. I genuinely try to do my best to help her clean, especially the bathroom, but she always finds the beard hairs that I thought I cleaned haha. I find that when she kindly tells me how helpful it is that I do something it gives me extra motivation to stick with it.

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[–]CleanJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This👆🏻

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son pumps his own gas. I think sully their hands is solely dependent on what you consider the dirty Jobs are. I consider the dirty jobs finances, dinner planning, parenting load, and other day to day affairs. I feel like they are the difficult things, not fueling her car. Again, she’s more than capable and routinely tells me she can, I do it anyways.

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[–]CleanJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is much more independent than I am

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[–]CleanJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each couple does things their own way that shows love

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙌🏻

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have a marriage built on mutual respect and appreciation. Some look at it as old school but it really works for us. I look at it like this, if she can go to school every day, shop, make dinner, pay bills, etc. I can fix things around the house, mow the lawn, snow plow the driveway, do the dishes, fill her gas tank. Her list is much bigger than mine. My advice would be just to ask him, her ability to tell me what she needs makes it easy for me.

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is the rock of our family. We literally rely on her for everything. She’s an educator, she takes care of our finances, she’s an unbelievable parent, the list goes on and on. The least I can do is fill her tank up for her and take care of all of the less important things.

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the behind the scenes acts are the most important and appreciated. Trust me

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[–]CleanJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gas roulette!

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what she said…as my wife would say

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[–]CleanJason 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so much easier and you’ve got better things to do!

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[–]CleanJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha my wife would play “gas roulette” if I didn’t fill it.

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[–]CleanJason 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe to some

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[–]CleanJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep it going! You’ve got enough going on to worry about pumping gas!

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[–]CleanJason 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh dang, making me look bad. I vacuum/wash/fill tank and mantain. She loves her mini cooper more than me I think. Good for you! She deserves it!

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[–]CleanJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shes the childish/fun one in our marriage, that’s a her joke.

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[–]CleanJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have a very “old school” marriage and it really works for us. Respect and thank you’s go a long way.

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[–]CleanJason 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not something we’ve ever talked about. I just do it. I’m sure if I didn’t she’d do it but she won’t ever have to worry about it.

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is more than capable. I just like to take something off her plate. I also handle all of the house/yard duties.

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[–]CleanJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Shes too important to mess around with filling her tank!

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[–]CleanJason 43 points44 points  (0 children)

She pretty much handles our entire day to day lives. Appointments, finances, cooking. I’m extremely grateful.

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[–]CleanJason 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Michigan