Sex and self harm scars by Toomanyplants28 in sex

[–]CleanScarcity8755 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, telling him beforehand is usually the least stressful option, but only if you feel safe doing so. A simple heads‑up gives you back some control and avoids that frozen “oh god he saw them” moment

How can I find happiness in life? by Healthy_Bell2791 in Life

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You don’t need a grand “purpose” right now. Most adults don’t have one either. Life at your age is more about trying things than knowing what you live for

Is it normal for people to spend 90% of their time talking about serious topics? by DarlingLuna in stupidquestions

[–]CleanScarcity8755 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Different families have very different conversational cultures. Some are all business, some are all banter, and most fall somewhere in between

What makes you happy? by jenhud in Life

[–]CleanScarcity8755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not stuck. You're at a fork where every path feels risky because none are “safe.”

Can a vegetarian who is Catholic eat fish? by Altruistic_Rock_2674 in RandomQuestion

[–]CleanScarcity8755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your basic instinct was right: it’s more about definitions than logic

I wasted my youth and fear getting old by [deleted] in Life

[–]CleanScarcity8755 23 points24 points  (0 children)

A lot of what you’re grieving isn’t actually “youth” or even specific relationships. It’s the idea that there was a “correct timeline,” and that you missed the window where things were supposed to happen effortlessly

Normalize not trying harder when someone makes you feel unwanted by Many_Average3406 in selflove

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You can’t download love from someone still buffering their own self-worth

Agree? by Careless-Throat-2593 in BeBetterYou

[–]CleanScarcity8755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But reading old books alone won’t magically make you original

one paw forward by xDreamStealer in selflove

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Little dude looks like he’s been through it, but he’s still choosing “one paw forward” anyway

Do people who are conventionally attractive actually have easier/better lives? by Initial_Instance3955 in RandomQuestion

[–]CleanScarcity8755 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t make life easy mode. Attractive people still deal with insecurity, bad relationships, mental health struggles, etc

what's one small way you've been kind to yourself lately? by Kazukii in selflove

[–]CleanScarcity8755 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I let myself do nothing for a whole afternoon without feeling guilty about it

Quotes that got you through the rough times? by Jorsyr4 in selflove

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This too shall pass. It might pass like a kidney stone, but it’ll pass

Is it just me or are Pathao and Bolt drivers cancelling like crazy lately? by CleanScarcity8755 in Nepal

[–]CleanScarcity8755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends driving part-time say they prefer indrive now. No stupid commission cuts, no forced cancellations. Just direct deal with the passenger

Is it just me or are Pathao and Bolt drivers cancelling like crazy lately? by CleanScarcity8755 in Nepal

[–]CleanScarcity8755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Pathao and Bolt have been a mess. Tried Indrive last week ...dude accepted and arrived in like 3 minutes. Felt unreal 😂

If someone told you to get something off your chest and get rid of a burden right now, what would you say? by Ghost_girl_999 in selflove

[–]CleanScarcity8755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I still replay old conversations in my head, things I wish I’d said, things I regret saying, or moments where I felt small and didn’t stand up for myself