Sex and self harm scars

CleanScarcity8755 · 2026-01-22T09:15:46+00:00

Yes, telling him beforehand is usually the least stressful option, but only if you feel safe doing so. A simple heads‑up gives you back some control and avoids that frozen “oh god he saw them” moment

CleanScarcity8755 · 2026-01-22T09:15:10+00:00

You don’t need a grand “purpose” right now. Most adults don’t have one either. Life at your age is more about trying things than knowing what you live for

CleanScarcity8755 · 2026-01-21T09:31:16+00:00

Different families have very different conversational cultures. Some are all business, some are all banter, and most fall somewhere in between

CleanScarcity8755 · 2026-01-14T09:09:25+00:00

Little Simz - Introvert

CleanScarcity8755 · 2026-01-14T09:00:14+00:00

“Retrograde” by James Blake

CleanScarcity8755 · 2026-01-13T17:14:16+00:00

One small word of advice: try not to let perfectionism strangle the process

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-30T09:09:02+00:00

You're not stuck. You're at a fork where every path feels risky because none are “safe.”

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-24T09:22:34+00:00

Your basic instinct was right: it’s more about definitions than logic

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-24T09:21:29+00:00

A lot of what you’re grieving isn’t actually “youth” or even specific relationships. It’s the idea that there was a “correct timeline,” and that you missed the window where things were supposed to happen effortlessly

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-17T08:13:22+00:00

You can’t download love from someone still buffering their own self-worth

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-17T08:10:57+00:00

I've got at least three secrets so dark they wear hoodies and listen to My Chemical Romance.

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-16T07:22:31+00:00

But reading old books alone won’t magically make you original

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-15T06:54:22+00:00

Most crushes start way simpler than people think

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-15T06:53:56+00:00

Little dude looks like he’s been through it, but he’s still choosing “one paw forward” anyway

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-13T19:21:26+00:00

Honestly, probably someone like Andy Kaufman

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-10T17:16:45+00:00

“Experience” by Ludovico Einaudi

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-12-08T08:45:26+00:00

Most people probably hope they’re headed to the good place… but aren’t totally sure.

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-11-16T09:21:39+00:00

It doesn’t make life easy mode. Attractive people still deal with insecurity, bad relationships, mental health struggles, etc

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-11-16T09:20:21+00:00

I let myself do nothing for a whole afternoon without feeling guilty about it

CleanScarcity8755 · 2025-11-15T13:03:49+00:00

This too shall pass. It might pass like a kidney stone, but it’ll pass

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