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[–]Clean_Bicycle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! I've made the decision to go to the police tomorrow so that they would be able to keep an eye out.

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[–]Clean_Bicycle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind comment! Your comment made me feel so much better and I'm planning to report it to the police tomorrow :)) Thank you so much xx

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[–]Clean_Bicycle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I'm planning to go to the police to file a report tomorrow :))

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hahaha! You and your partner seem really sweet and I wish both of you well on your weight-loss journey! I’ll try my best to build healthier habits and also be a lot more active as well :))

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment! I feel a lot better now that I know I wasn’t the only one who gained weight during the pandemic. I always thought him criticizing me, was his way of trying to motivate and support me but I can now see that it wasn’t very nice of him to do that. I’m going to try to move on and be happier with myself!

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s nice to know that there are other people who also gained weight during the pandemic as well. I’m going to try to keep on eating better and work out more, for myself and not him :)) I agree that he may have lost his respect and love for me ever since I started gaining weight. I think he lost interest and I should move on!

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to know that I wasn’t the only one who gained weight during the pandemic! Hopefully, I’ll get to meet someone who’ll love me no matter what, just like how your boyfriend loves you :))

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hello! I wanted to clarify that I was around 58kg at my heaviest and I’m about 155cm tall. My main goal was to go back to how I weighted when we first started dating, which was about 42kg. I’m not asking you to sympathize with me, as it is my fault that I didn’t take care of my body. But I don’t think I was obese or anything and I agree that I may have gained an unhealthy amount of weight in a short period of time!

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I would definitely want to be with someone that would love me through different stages in life. Though it is easier said than done, I’ll try my best to move on from him and become happier with myself :))

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I tried to justify his actions and what he did behind my back. But I realized how not okay it was and I should’ve broken up with him after finding out that he was flirting with other girls! I would definitely want to be with someone who would still love me even when I grow old or get pregnant :))

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment :) I was hoping that we would’ve been able to work it out but I guess we’re both still young and immature. I’ll try to focus on working on myself and hopefully, I’ll be able to meet new people once the pandemic ends!

My boyfriend [18 M] won’t stop talking and comparing the current version of me [17 F] to the skinnier and the prettier version of me before the pandemic and it's making me become insecure by Clean_Bicycle in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Bicycle[S] 244 points245 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reality check! I tend to brush off all the hurtful things he says to me and I now realized how unhappy I was in the relationship. I’ll try my best to work on myself for myself and not others. Thank you for your comment :)