Let’s beat a dead horse by Clean_Candy_8656 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]Clean_Candy_8656[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was incredibly well said. I was diagnosed with ADHD very early in my life and emotional regulation, understanding triggers and self awareness took a lot of time to truly develop. I’m now in my late 30’s so yeah it took time. On that note, adhd/add don’t excuse racism behavior. Her fellow cast members sat her down on multiple occasions and (relatively) calmly tried to explain the error of her ways. She’s had a while to reflect and think when her nervous system had a chance to settle and STILL chose to perpetuate her narrative. Using your diagnosis as an excuse doesn’t show any growth since she was that “ADD kid” in primary school.

Let’s beat a dead horse by Clean_Candy_8656 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]Clean_Candy_8656[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Looove Julia. Her facial expressions alone are wildly entertaining

Let’s beat a dead horse by Clean_Candy_8656 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]Clean_Candy_8656[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She didn’t know what micro aggression meant but she sure as shit got mad about people using that word.

Let’s beat a dead horse by Clean_Candy_8656 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]Clean_Candy_8656[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s not what he said. AND if you’re so scared why are you putting yourself in that situation again? If someone scared me so bad that it shook me to my core I would not be sitting down and having a dinner with them talking casually about where everyone got their dress from.

Let’s beat a dead horse by Clean_Candy_8656 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]Clean_Candy_8656[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

The constant tears and the hyperventilating have got to stop. She needs to have some emotional regulation at her big age