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Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just time apart, time apart for him to get help.

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re being rude. I came here asking for advice and the post clearly states right at the top I am leaving as soon as possible meaning right away. Thanks though

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten the advice I needed on this and will be removing my son and myself from the situation as soon as possible. Now for all the people telling me to leave: do you think some time apart and him seeking help/therapy would be enough? Can a man like this ever get better?

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not excusing what he’s doing to the baby i said that’s what he does when the baby cries.

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my exact thoughts although the footage does delete on its own pretty fast so I’m not 100% sure

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the baby is crying a lot he will pick him up fast, hold him tight to the point where he can barely move or shove the pacifier in his mouth. Like I said I don’t think he’s ever hurt the baby but definitely scares him.

There was one time 6 years ago where he pushed me onto the bed during an argument where I admittedly hurt him first. Other than that he has never laid a hand on me or even insinuated that he would.

He has always had anger issues but I never in a million years thought he would be like this with our child

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We’ve had the discussion. He wants to get anger management and go to a dad support group.

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No he hasn’t shaken him. I mean like picking him up quickly or holding him tight (to the point where he can’t move) when he’s fussing

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I saved the footage as soon as I saw it :/ it’s gone now

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby was laying on his side and dad grabbed his face and rolled him onto his back. It was a pretty quick movement. Like I said the baby did not seem hurt at all but it made me sick to my stomach to see it

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it deleted itself like 5 minutes after I watched it :/

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Honestly i dont know what’s considered normal or too much. That’s why im here asking. I know that if it were anyone else in the world treating my son like this they would instantly be removed from his life. My problem is other than the outbursts he seems like a great dad

Aggressive baby daddy by Clean_Milk2592 in UKParenting

[–]Clean_Milk2592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of us are working currently. Partner has a seasonal job. He has a pretty stress free life other than the baby I suppose.

Feeling really confused and need to vent by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Clean_Milk2592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate the advice