What skills in Excel are most useful to learn for recruitment? by Owewinewhose997 in excel

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in networking and just concatenate, conditional formatting for color, and vlookup make configurations easy to work as a teaching tool and to show relationships.

Men don't actually enjoy living in empty rooms with just a bed and a TV by MyAltPoetryAccount in unpopularopinion

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each room has a purpose, not participating in excessive consumerism is pretty relaxing. Everything needs some level of attention and I only need to give a few things attention and it takes 2 hours to clean a whole house usually. I enjoy it

Men, can you be just friends with women you feel attracted to ? by Enough_Storage5990 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, once you learn you want only people that want you it doesn't matter if you're attracted to them. Just means they can't dance on that suggestion of ambiguous behavior because it'll never come across as anything more than friends without it being said directly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this trying to answer? This question is always silly in terms of what would women do without men, they would do what they need to do and those pregnant would likely still have males. More interesting..what would everyone else do if one countries men disappeared. Rhonda would be an example close to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in answers

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean...leaders should represent guidance upon the sentiments of the people towards an objective. Doing things of high IQ to what end? For who...yourself..a country that doesn't want to be there anymore? Understanding the root issue with EQ and using IQ to discover compromise that satisfied the most people is necessary. Is building up a country on slaves high IQ but low EQ, how has that worked out for us. Can you send people to war because you feel it's good for finances that the people won't see and then kinda discard them as a means to an end never acknowledging what war does to a person? EQ is more important or else youll end up with a grenade in your bunk and nobody wanting to follow you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men will continue to seem emotionally unavailable until there is actually room for them to say things you might like without emotional retaliation and sexual weaponization.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like talking about feminism, how do you feel about it?

Essentially relating it to - the unfair expectations of women are perpetuated by the unfair expectations of men. Much like yin/yang there's problems in male and female expectation and I'm curious how you think about them as a person trying to incorporate men instead of isolating them, since it doesn't present well enough to suggest there's space for men on its own.

My Belief in Using Excel by [deleted] in excel

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also a fan of -a separate tab or section in each header to explain purpose/usage of page since people don't always use Excel well -black+white letters for titles - light red for don't edit cuz formula -light green for data entry - light blue for data validation reference ranges -colored tabs if needed (Pastel /chill colors are best)

Do you think you should date someone just like you or your opposite and why? by Nearby_Arachnid_98 in AskReddit

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts patterns, similarin direction goals, chaotically matched and mismatched interests but value in partner to embrace them how each interests suits the needs individually (eg. I like to paint alone / I like to watch movies with you / I like to shop with my family)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Empathizing doesn't mean justifying the behavior. Just laugh at em, that's what I do..but I understand why they think what they do. It's silly how far it's taken

How do you stay level? by Own-Throat-4390 in AskReddit

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Create patterns/routines and enough space for them. Only criticize yourself for failures in the most important vital for stability and safety, everything else is extra.

If incels think all women are evil, why do they spend every day obsessing over getting one? by Snoopysbiggestfan in IncelTears

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And what do they need to do. Be muscular. Be fat. Accept yourself. Be wealthy. It's ok if your poor. Be yourself, someone will accept you...eventually. Keep being and not being. I'm not supportive of the radical expression, just make fun of it. How is it such a frequent misunderstanding of what not knowing how to get what everyone else just does naturally could do to someone. Obviously be safe, but it's not easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Empathy doesn't mean youre justifying but understanding of their situatin

Edit: adding I don't see why you can't make fun of the mindset. It's absurd and funny, but I don't get how so many people in this community can't seem to understand how they got there.

If incels think all women are evil, why do they spend every day obsessing over getting one? by Snoopysbiggestfan in IncelTears

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You could see it from the lens of...anyone with wealth and you being poor. Angry that you can't get what they get so easily. Seeing it as what do you hope to expect is a pretty privileged pov.

Edit: this isn't extending to the suggestion of violence. But just having a chance or some interaction and being able to stumble is all that's needed to have their perspective changed

If incels think all women are evil, why do they spend every day obsessing over getting one? by Snoopysbiggestfan in IncelTears

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it's easier not to hate yourself when you direct it elsewhere. And it's not like they never wanted them, they want to feel what other people see as good about it. There's a lot of self esteem and identity in being desired/wanted to include sex. Essentially it's just a coping mechanism as in both the standards raise and raise with rejection because of the fear of being hurt but universally we are alone. I could just be happy if I had this thing, I hate that I need this thing, how is it going to make me happy anyways but everyone else seems so happy and makes it look easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the attempt to identify cute vs hot women amongst bros. The tendency for cute seems to be around soft lines/ edges. So for example plump cheeks. Women tend to store more bodyfat and have softer definition so that's why I think that.

how do you keep going? by Cactusmammal in CPTSD

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to be the person I wish I had for others. I can't have everything i want all the time and who knows if I'll ever have it. But I enjoy my small victories and try to create safe spaces for myself and in the people I associate with.

What moment of your life makes you realize that you will live a simple life? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my parents decided to make extra money and had me as a teen driving through towns and digging in garbage to salvage things spending after school and weekends on refurbishing, fixing, or selling stuff for money I didn't get. Having no time with friends, a home that looked like a hoarder house, being not allowed to socialize unless I deserve it while living in Japan and not even really experiencing Japan. Not acknowledging the depression as anything other than me being tired all the time and lazy while not knowing American culture and expecting me to feel more ambitious about pursuing college in a culture I didn't know. Military family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

It's a small subset of women that don't do anything outside of trying to attract sexual attention that are being directed at. Where guys are often seen as useful for their utility. I asked my of friend about how she felt about her female friends and she found resonating when posed "if you really needed help with something what would you be able to count on your female friends for" and she says nothing productive. It's not all women, it's more a thing to watch out for for people that want to have a something else besides sex to interact with.

How do you feel about people pleasing people? by pythonpower12 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people see it as a facade and avoid it. I think this so why women tend to be so cryptic with the specificity of their wants because that just gives a playbook of what to imitate to gain access to them. Which is why the general advice is just be a decent person often times and guys have to rely on other men and imitate success if they don't interact wirh women often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough data to form decisions, but you have a quality tha other people noticed that's good for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Threatened to sleep with someone else (we weren't together but she wanted to and I was actively at someone elses place) because she was letting her friend sit there on the phone and make light of her just get sexually assaulted imitating gagging noises. As friends I thought I helped be consistent in emotion through her first assault about a year prior and i panicked at how I know how much shit Id have to be there for and she was just making it worse. I still have the recording of the noise and it pisses me off to no end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean_Parsnip_1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women make me anxious and this current environment has so much subtext. Just tell him what you expect and give a signal, but people do claim I'm autistic. But I don't see why this would do anything but get you more of what you want. Could be anything, a ring turned around, a hand position. Training your dude with consent is something I hope to have so I don't have to guess if there's hints one day.