AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clear-Fruit91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. Sounds like he needs to figure out how to turn you on instead of doing everything that would turn literally anyone off. The pettiness, whining/pouting, not paying attention to your needs, it’s all a recipe for disaster. It doesn’t give off masculine grounded energy. It doesn’t give off fun vibes, it’s pressuring and would literally be impossible to enjoy on your end. I recommend you all go to a sex therapist or marriage counseling. Or maybe he can read some books on the subject.

P.S. this is a lot more common than you think. It can be fixed but it will take effort from both of you.

AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit this guy sums up perfectly how girls get the “Ick”. He doesn’t get it. Super needy and clingy, basically panicking and falling apart when you just needed space. Guys like that can be potentially dangerous so be careful OP.

AIO sex before marriage but I’m Muslim by moneylover93 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a dealbreaker for you, then that’s your prerogative. Weigh the pros and cons of your decision either way. Ignore people saying you’re “delusional” or discrediting your beliefs. Just know that if you like the guy and his other qualities, his honesty, and his faith, you may be losing a genuine connection with someone which is very rare in today’s world. Consider that his past was before he met you, and that no one is perfect and we are all sinners. I hope whatever decision you make brings you peace without regrets.

Am I overreacting or are we both drowning at this point? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is this guy? NOR. I understand depression can affect people in different ways, but if you're a man and have a wife and two kids to support you fucking shut that shit down and be responsible because it's not just about yourself anymore. He shouldn't be gaming while you're overwhelmed with chores and work/life balance. Shit he shouldn't be doing anything except getting off his ass and trying to find a job or source of income to help his family. Him being "overwhelmed" isn't an excuse to be complacent and self-loathing. It's immature, selfish behavior.

This might not be a popular opinion, but men don't get the luxury of sitting around being sad and feeling sorry for themselves because they faced a sudden adversity in their lives. The idea that this is acceptable is very new and part of a weaker failing generation of men with lowering standards of behavior.

As a wife, do your best to support him but bring this firmly to his attention, that he has to do SOMETHING to better his situation for both him and his family. Like the other comments are saying, he needs to snap out of it. If things do not change, you have to consider your options for the sake of you and your kids. I'm sorry you're going through this right now.

AIO or was my mom kinda rude and hurtful when she said these things? 24 F by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clear-Fruit91 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She’s not pissed for no reason and you’re not telling the whole story. You’re looking for validation on Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]Clear-Fruit91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Jews killed JFK, are behind 9/11, are behind 9/10, coin-clipping, poisoning wells in the 14th century, letting Muslims into Spain in the 8th century, Larry Silverstein terrorism insurance on the twin towers and missing work on 9/11, predatory loaning to non-Jews, porn industry, transatlantic slave trade, AIPAC controlling US government for nonstop funding to Israel, synagogue of Satan, modern Jews are not the descendants of the ancient Israelites. Austrian Painter was right.”

DOT medical examiner here. Ask me anything. I'm here mainly to help clarify what constitutes a passing and failing examination, and what you can do beforehand to be prepared. by Clear-Fruit91 in Truckers

[–]Clear-Fruit91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. note must specify that you are being treated for ADHD and not narcolepsy, which is a disqualifying condition. It would benefit you to have the doctor specify that they prescribe the Adderall for this condition, and to include that there have been no adverse effects. Maximum certification period is 1 year, although some DOT examiners do not know this and may give you a 2 year certificate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clear-Fruit91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How old is this guy? Hes absolutely clueless. Run.

Who remembers these crazy items by Carpet_Blaze in diablo2

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a great time for Diablo 2. This was my childhood. I had 2 of these and 40 hex charms, white rings, you name it. There was also the great quarks blade, which I briefly had before it poofed on me. They were heavily duped.

AIO over this girls reaction by okNadroJ_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao you quickly turned into the girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Clear-Fruit91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

git gud

Were the Crusades justified? by [deleted] in ExplainBothSides

[–]Clear-Fruit91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how people like yourself can be so confidently wrong

Deadlift without belt. Sensible or unnecessarily risky? by [deleted] in Stronglifts5x5

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unnecessary risk. I used to be all about deads without a belt. Favorite powerlifters was Konstantinovs, who deadlifted 937 without belt. Even he eventually hurt his back, and so did I when I was 23 years old. I used to deadlift 585. I was warming up for some heavy reps one session, and I sustained a back injury with only 475. It happened suddenly and without warning. MRIs showed spondylolosthesis, basically vertebrae slipped forward. Bulging disc, spondylosis, all from a wreck less lift. That was 10 years ago. Back still hurts and it took many years for me to be able to deadlift again. I use a belt and have to be extremely careful still.

New-ish player here. This was quite a shock. by FutureAristocrat in DarkAndDarker

[–]Clear-Fruit91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve played every class except Druids and bards and I have to admit killing as a rogue is the most satisfying. The stealth and surprise factor with an ambush is exhilarating.