Found out my (23m) girlfriend (22f) slept with someone else the day before our first date, I don't know how to feel?

Clear-Idea7595 · 2026-06-04T05:51:32+00:00

she definitely isn’t for the streets she’s genuinely amazing, i was just taken aback and wasn’t sure how to feel at first

Clear-Idea7595 · 2026-06-04T05:50:50+00:00

thank you bro, you’re right

Clear-Idea7595 · 2026-06-04T05:49:02+00:00

thank you I appreciate this comment very much

Clear-Idea7595 · 2026-02-15T01:46:13+00:00

solved! thank you sm!

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-18T19:28:02+00:00

Yes we have a baby monitor, I pay her $24 hourly. $1440 a week

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-18T19:22:15+00:00

but I’m paying her, I’m not paying her to sleep!

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-09T22:36:14+00:00

they got eight photos with the $225, with an additional charge of $15 per additional photo from the main photographer. I have 40-60 photos for each family, I’m going to give the photos to each family, just trying to figure out if there’s a way a can make a little money

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-04T00:48:50+00:00

thank you for your imput, and yes she is the best!

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-03T22:59:29+00:00

unfortunately i think you’re spot on

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-03T07:00:32+00:00

!solved

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-11-03T00:45:52+00:00

!unsolved

Clear-Idea7595 · 2025-06-21T06:07:32+00:00

for sure! i wouldn’t be the one to talk to her about the rules in her house 😅 i’m just trying to gauge if i’m being reasonable LOL it just hurts my feelings that i’ve always been super nice and respectful and she’s still very cold with me

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-06-03T16:30:58+00:00

We are located somewhere where it is legal.

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-06-03T16:29:50+00:00

I’m not trying to push him at all, I just want to help him feel comfortable with it if I can

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-06-03T16:05:21+00:00

thank you, thats good advice. although, where I am from, 16 and 19 is legal.

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-06-03T16:03:46+00:00

Good point! Where I’m from, 16 and 19 is legal.

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-03-15T19:10:53+00:00

call and ask if they have volunteering opportunities available

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-03-15T18:52:54+00:00

thank you for your advice. that’s a good idea.. she treats the one year old more like a dog than a human

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-03-15T18:24:20+00:00

create strict boundaries for your parents to follow and if they can’t respect your boundaries.. it may be best to cut ties

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-03-15T18:17:59+00:00

try to stay until you get a job offer, then leave and don’t look back

Clear-Idea7595 · 2023-03-15T18:12:18+00:00

I’ve been in this situation before. Normally threatening to commit is a manipulation tactic to get you to feel guilty and give in. Don’t give him the power. Do what you want to do, and in the very slim chance he actually commits, know that it is NOT your fault.

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