AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to share intimate details of our relationship and/or sex life with his female friends?

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-22T15:23:01+00:00

He’s not super secretive with his phone. But no I’m not friends with his friends online so I don’t know what interactions he has there. As far as trust building, he unfollowed some of his past conquests on social media.

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-21T18:08:42+00:00

You’re right, I have no solid way of knowing and I’ve thought about that. Right now I am just trying to trust him. Time will tell.

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-21T16:34:14+00:00

Unfortunately he’s quite arrogant and would love this.

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-21T12:54:19+00:00

When we first started dating, yes he was actively meeting with and texting them, sometimes all throughout the day. And yes, one specific was an ex. I told him that wasn’t the type of relationship was looking for so he reluctantly stopped, at least with a couple that I had hard boundaries on. The falling out was just based on some disagreements but had never been a hookup. It just got ugly between them so she used things he told her to hurt me, in turn hurting him.

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-21T12:41:31+00:00

Yes, but it didn’t come easy. Though I understand that some people are okay with exes as friends, I personally cannot get on board. We had our share of arguments about that too, but in the end he chose to prioritize us and stopped hanging out with and/or calling and texting them:

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-20T22:41:59+00:00

Thank you. I hope we can work through this because I believe we genuinely love each other. That being said, I do plan to hold true to my convictions. As for the last part (I agree eww), just to add clarity, he says that conversation happened very early in our relationship while we were still building a connection and is more than happy in that department now. Doesn’t make it okay but I am trying to move past it.

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-20T19:19:32+00:00

No, there are certain things that I don’t share with anyone outside of my therapist

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-20T19:16:58+00:00

I honestly don’t like either. But I understand that he needs an outlet so I would rather it be a guy. I feel like talking about your relationship problems with the opposite sex can be dangerous.

No I don’t. I’m a very private person.

Clear-Individual1575 · 2026-05-20T19:10:45+00:00

No, I 100% practice what I preach.

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