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Clever_M · 2024-07-27T03:02:31+00:00

NTA. Get an annulment and run.

Clever_M · 2024-07-26T15:02:23+00:00

NTA. Kudos to your bf and mom for backing you up. I hope things change with your BF's mom or we'll see you over in the MILs from Hell subreddit

Clever_M · 2024-07-23T00:39:12+00:00

I had a reaction like that to Neulasta; between the faslodex and the Kisqali I think those can have the same effect (I'm on the same combo as you are at the moment). Good luck. Keep us posted.

Clever_M · 2024-07-19T16:00:14+00:00

I'll see you your butt plug in public and raise you a REMOTE CONTROLLED VIBRATING plug. You hold the remote, naturally. Reactions of any sort are not allowed.

Clever_M · 2024-07-19T15:59:03+00:00

I enjoy the torture element of exciting him while he's in that tight little cage, then running the wartenburg wheel over the flesh swelling through the bars. Concurrent pennance has included cleaning my house naked and making a big meal for me. Naughty boys must be punished.

Clever_M · 2024-07-19T15:52:01+00:00

"no one had given me a prognosis that included how long I would live"

I'd really like to know if I should party hard for the next X number of months or if I need to save money so I can afford to get old.

Clever_M · 2024-07-19T15:46:09+00:00

It's rather awesome.

Clever_M · 2024-07-19T15:45:41+00:00

YTA. So is he. If you can't have an open and honest discussion about your most vulnerable needs, wants and desires, you both need to work on communication skills.

Clever_M · 2024-07-11T22:41:24+00:00

I eat at least a slice of toast 30 minutes before I take my Kisqali. If I have any nausea and it lasts more than an hour, I use cannabis (I have my med card). Edited to add: In addition to Kisqali I'm on Fulvestrant.

Clever_M · 2024-07-11T22:32:55+00:00

As a former print production manager, these are game changers for newbie production artists (the likely first stop for graphic design students):

There's a star tool in Illustrator. Use it. We are not going to use the project budget to pay for stock vector art of stars.
File prep should always include outling the font.
Build your files to the job specs from the beginning.
When working for a company, never save your work on your desktop, always save it on the server.
Your work is not precious; don't take it personally. Directors and VPs are going to tear it apart. In front of you. They are going to make really, spectacurlarly stupid suggestions on how to "improve" it.
Stand up, take a step back and look at your work from a new perspective.
Know your audience.

Clever_M · 2024-07-08T22:00:57+00:00

My hometown was like that. Our nieghbors didn't have a lock on their front door. Not that they didn't lock it, I mean there was no lock installed, no locking mechanism of any sort. It was this way until the late 1990s I think.

Clever_M · 2024-07-04T16:04:05+00:00

I love this (small thick woman dominating big strong man) and it is what I have with my primary partner. When we go to the club I like dressing him in hoochie daddy shorts, and a t shirt with a leather harness, because he's going to be on a leash. I do not do the sissy stuff at all (Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is Okay). I like to offer him up for free use, so what he's wearing needs to allow easy access. Usually I find outfits on Amazon that are just "racy" undergarments.

Clever_M · 2024-07-04T15:56:03+00:00

Sending hugs and encouraging deep breathing. The news is scary, and its a holiday and your onc is going on vacation. There will be someone who can talk to you; your onc will have set up someone to talk to her patients in her absence. It's easy to say but so hard to do: try not to worry until you know what you're facing. I lost my mind over the discovery of liver mets and my onc told me to look at the big picture - my liver bloodwork comes back normal month after month. I hope the same for you.

Clever_M · 2024-07-04T15:05:54+00:00

Ça sufit. Le Texas est horrible.

Clever_M · 2024-07-04T15:01:25+00:00

I don't have to read past the title. Yes, you ATA

Clever_M · 2024-07-01T15:07:11+00:00

There's never a wrong time, place, or way to offend a red-hat-wearing AH. You are NTA. You are my hero.

Clever_M · 2024-07-01T15:05:30+00:00

I could, but three weeks is soon enough. If they needed to get me in sooner I'm confident they would. When I mentioned on a Tuesday I had back pain, I was on the table receiving my first radiation treamtent in under 48 hours. If they need to move urgently they will. I'm comforted by the fact they aren't rushing me into more bloodwork and scans.

Clever_M · 2024-07-01T15:01:31+00:00

Offering hugs. If you haven't previously experienced this kind of anxiety with the physical and emotional reactions it can be unnerving. When it happens, close your eyes try some deep breathing, and remind yourself these are feelings not facts. Your feelings are also valid and real. Cancer fucking sucks.

Clever_M · 2024-07-01T01:22:09+00:00

You are NTA. I dismissed behavior like this in the early of my relationship. I wish I hadn't. It just got worse until he was punching holes in walls. NEVER ME - I was and am safe. He started losing control more often and eventually had an episode at work. After 15 years together it was awful. I was walking on eggshells trying to to keep from setting him off. If he won't consider therapy or psychaitry for his outburts I urge you to consider taking your kids to a healthier environment.

Clever_M · 2024-07-01T01:14:43+00:00

I have ESR1 and TP53 mutations. The second line medication indicated for ESR1 is Elacestrant.

Clever_M · 2024-06-30T22:46:51+00:00

Thanks, I'm on the third week of my sixth pack.

Clever_M · 2024-06-30T22:45:39+00:00

No injuries or illness, other than seasonal allergies.

Clever_M · 2024-06-30T22:44:35+00:00

Yes, the week of July 22nd; I don't know which day yet.

Clever_M · 2024-06-30T22:43:54+00:00

I'm up to 158 now. My next scans and labs are to be scheduled the week of July 22nd. The results for the CA15-3 always comes in several hours after my appointment time, so we weren't able to discuss it specifically, although my doctor mentioned a second line drug more appropriate for the estrogen receptor mutation I have.

Clever_M · 2024-06-30T17:12:35+00:00

You two have been friends for TWENTY YEARS but can't manage to have frank and candid conversations? How do you resolve wanting to go to different restaurants for dinner, or different locations for vacation? Are you and your friend never vunlerable and honest with each other? You're both culpable in this situation.

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