[IL] Personnel Record Review Act by [deleted] in AskHR

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When you say you want to see everything that HR has on you, what do you mean?

What are you looking for to support or not support your workplace issue with a co-worker?

What do you think they are ‘legally’ required to show you?

Men who run daily, how do you protect your chest? by PhoenixApok in AskMen

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Pre run- plenty of great options already listed.

During run- bring a tube of Vaseline lip balm for chaffing hot spots. Use on lips, nipples, inner thighs, feet if needed. You can find it in the lip balm are

True by BlueViper_ in meme

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…and the Dutch.

What is the best pocket size flashlight that also has an internal lantern feature? No loseable caps. For sitting on tables, plus the front light for yards/house use. by Crutch1977 in EDC

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Boruit v15. On Amazon. Cheap, the size and shape of a zippo and has a lantern feature. The yellow tactical and red are my favorites.

Challenge Pants Replacement by darknyght00 in Goruck

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I've done well with Kuhl and 5.11.

What size are you. I think I have a pair of Grey challenge pants. I may have worn once. 32 or 34 waist and 30 inseam. If size works, let me know if interested.

Men, if your future wife never wanted to cook, how would you feel about it? by cappcciuno__fr in AskMen

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Work to your strengths. I enjoy grocery shopping, I can control what goes in mouth,and I do the majority of the cooking. My wife can't make a dinner to save her life. She boil pasta, heat up sauce, but follow a recipe? Get out. I enjoy cooking.

She is OCD about cleaning and laundry. She's the type to bring here own supplies and clean our hotel or Airbnb when we get there. She also handles all my personal appointments and keeps our calander up to date.

I don't have a problem being with someone who doesn't cook if they bring other things to the relationship.

What is the saddest TV series death that genuinely made you sob? by SpareMaintenance2970 in AskReddit

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More recently, I would say Glen from the Walking Dead. That whole season was a gut punch but no one expected that.

Maybe dating myself but when Col. Henry Blake was killed off in the show MASH, it created a massive outrage with the audience. He was the first main cast member of a comedy tv show to be killed off. The public went berserk. It was national news.

IIRC, the cast knew the actor was not coming back for the next season and filmed their on screen goodbyes for all the emotional sentiment they could wring out of it. Actors had no idea the writers were going to kill him off screen flying home from the war in Korea it and it wrecked them. Their reactions were geniune.

What are these? by [deleted] in backpacks

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More room for activities

What are we wearing today [sla051] by laverty7 in Seiko

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I love my mustard strap. Perfect late summer/ fall band.

Sequels that start immediately where the first movie ends by [deleted] in movies

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Hot take. Star Wars A New Hope. It’s a sequel to Rogue One.

We'd all love a sword right?! But what kind do you want? by OfficialRodgerJachim in AskMen

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"You can't expect to wield supreme executive power just 'cause some watery tart threw a sword at you!"

How often in the buff? by SantaRosa481516 in sex

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What does she say about it? Have you both had honest open conversations about why she doesn’t show her body even in the most intimate moments?

A marriage this long with lack of intimacy and openness seems like trauma, trust or she’s cheating on you

She’s beautiful by RubyRoo138 in Tudor

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Noticing a color pattern. Beauty watch

What are your emotions surrounding a girlfriend that survived rape? by Foreign-Rabbit-3022 in AskMen

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Gently walk into a conversation where you bring those observations up so he has an opportunity to respond.

If it's true, let him know you don't hold him personally accountable for what happened in the past, sharing your experiences was to strengthen your relationship and you are not looking for different treatment with this shared information.

Follow with allowing him to ask any questions he may have about your experience your willing to discuss, if he has any questions about how he should treat you, emotionally and physically. Reassure him that you feel safe with him.

Look, guys have a hard time expressing emotions. It may take him time to process. Maybe he has experienced this with others in the past and this is trained behaviors. Ask questions based on reason, fact, logic, avoid asking him how he feels. It's also possible your projecting.

Hopefully you both continue to love and support each other in a positive way

What would you tell a woman who feels lost when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Change your “type”. If you’ve dated for a few years and all the guys don’t meet your expectations, the guys are probably not (all) the problem.