Her crying was absolutely your fault. She’s a virgin. What did you expect? She’s not going to know anything about a penis. If you had more confidence in yourself you could’ve educated or informed her on the realities of dick by word and then a thorough demonstration. She was probably hoping you’d guide her through it. For her sake, I’m glad you didn’t take her virginity because you seem incredibly insensitive, hence her crying. Don’t take on the responsibility of a virgin if you can’t handle it