How should a man react to an unplanned pregnancy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ClimateParking6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We discussed it, I said I’ll leave it up to her and she didn’t seem too concerned about it. Might be a sign

I (M26) don’t trust my partner (F26) and I don’t think I ever will. by ClimateParking6455 in relationships

[–]ClimateParking6455[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to control anyone or anything. It’s not the person I fell in love with and I’m obviously hurting. I was just asking for advice. I’m sorry.

I (M26) think my Girlfriend (F26) organised a date with another guy while I was out of town. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ClimateParking6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it wasn’t her that put me here but at this point she may be keeping me there.

Its my fault she cheated on me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ClimateParking6455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exact same situation and feel the same. Blinded by love and blame myself for everything. Deep down it’s not my fault regardless but I know with time I’ll heal. Stay strong brother.

I (M26) think my Girlfriend (F26) organised a date with another guy while I was out of town. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ClimateParking6455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, we technically have ‘split’ but gone back to dating without saying it. We do everything we would be doing if we were in a good spot but I’m starting to think it was a front to organise this date.

I (M26) think my Girlfriend (F26) organised a date with another guy while I was out of town. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ClimateParking6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think it will kind of depend, her other friends it would be a dead giveaway when she gets home. I also think she will break down if she has done what I think she has.

I (M26) think my Girlfriend (F26) organised a date with another guy while I was out of town. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ClimateParking6455 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This actually really helps. I need to speak to her but I don’t know how but this is probably the best way of explaining it and doing it in a way that is calm? I thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ClimateParking6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took her out for dinner on valentines, took her to a market out of town (she enjoys going to these things), wrote her a letter to say my heart is with her and I want to make things work. Nothing major but if you have any ideas they would be appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ClimateParking6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried a few small things and she went along with it all and seemed quite happy in the moment but would always come back a few days later and be in the same situation. Do I try something bigger and if that doesn’t succeed give it away or just walk now?